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Don't want to get my hopes up?

Me and my hubby had unprotected sex on Thanksgiving. We have been TTC for over a year. I get my period 2 times a month so it's hard to tell when I am ovulating. I usually get the 2nd period around the 22nd of each month. My first period always comes on the 10th for about 5 days. This time the 2nd period didn't come till the 30th and it was really really light and it was just light brown mucus spotting (sorry TMI). I was supposed to start today and nothing just cramps and I have been constipated my back aches which never happens when I get my period or am about to start. I don't want to get my hopes up but it's odd that my 2nd period was very late and very short and that I haven't started today. I have also had a tight feeling in my lower abdomen when I stand, could that mean something? I want to test but I am scared it will just be another negative.

Any advice :( I'm about to give up hope on us having a baby.

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  • Anonymous
    8 years ago
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    you may just be psyching yourself into symptoms or you may actually be pregnant!

    take a test and find out! and dont give up, itll happen when the time is right. its harder on you if youre really trying to conceive and you dont than if it happens by the grace of God :)

  • 8 years ago

    You could very well be pregnant many women report having implantation bleeds around the time the fertilized egg implants itself onto the uterus and implantion bleeds often have a brownish pink tinge to them and only last for about a day and are very light. Constipation is also an early pregnancy symptom as are cramps. Take the test and good luck I'm crossing my fingers for you! : )

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