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Sexy AND classy. GUYS answers greatly appreciated.?

Hi everyone!

So there's this guy I sort of hooked up with at a party at his house last weekend. (Made-out not sex, I'm not trying to do that just yet.) Anyways he invited me to a party at his house this coming weekend. I want to look EXTRA desirable this weekend, but I'm not sure how to pull off sexy AND classy. I can do classy, but I also really want him to want me. What are some good outfit ideas. I'm plus size by the way. Thanks loves! And any other tips and tricks to nab him would be lovely. Thank you!

Update:

wizzard - I fully intend on being incredibly upfront with him about what I am and am not willing to do, but please for the sake of women kind NEVER say it's as much a woman's fault as it is the man that can't calm himself down.

Also I don't mean sexy in a showing everything off way. That's not really my style. I'd like to stay relatively covered up. thanks.

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  • 8 years ago

    Before I answer, I just wanted to ask, why is it necessary to wear as little as possible while still being classy to be sexy and classy? A girl doesn't have to do much to make a guy think of her sexually, if that's all looking sexy is for. Now, on the other hand, if you want to look sexy in a more desirable for less sexual reasons and yet be classy, that's a different story. For example, the girl I find most beautiful in the world looks amazing in a sweater lol!

    But my advice wouldn't be to dress sexy with class, dress classy with sexy... Here's something--if he's a worth-it guy, he will fall for more than just a sexy body--being attracted to class is a indicator of being a worthwhile dude. And if you want to be sexy as well, find something that fits your shape and reveals form and at the same time grace--without revealing have your skin in the process. Believe me, a guy is plenty capable of being sexually distracted WITHOUT the aide of low-cut necklines and thighs sticking out of skirts. So instead of trying to turn him into one-track-sex-minded guy, draw his attention to other things. For example, you can have a sexy cut on your clothes, but perhaps make it so your face is the most striking, so his attention is on your eyes instead. Just an idea, but it makes romance so much more worth it in my opinion if it isn't about sex.

    Source(s): I'm a guy
  • 8 years ago

    It doesn't matter so much what your wearing, if you want to get his attention, then when he 1st looks at you tilt your head down, chin down and your eyes looking up at him, it is a submissive look, then give him those pouty lips, with the bottom lip put out a little more, like a sad look, then open your mouth and lick your lips, he will not be able to ignore that. He should smile and work his way over to you and take you off somewhere to be alone. Do know that he will be wanting to do more with you this time, and it is only fair to tell him how far you are or are not wanting to go. If you lead him on too much with how you are dressed or with any actions, and then try to turn it off, he may not be able to do that.

    girls do not know how much power they have over most guys and we can't just turn our desires off sometimes, without a calming down, or revving down time, some guys can get violent, or mad, and it is as much your fault as it is his, you can work him up and get him excited, it is part of your responsibility to help him to calm down too, you don't have to give in, but you should help to bring him down in some way.

  • ?
    Lv 4
    5 years ago

    earlier I answer, I merely had to ask, why is it mandatory to positioned on as low as a probability on a similar time as nonetheless being stylish to be alluring and wide-spread? a lady would not ought to do plenty to make a guy trust of her sexually, if that is all searching alluring is for. Now, in spite of the indisputable fact that, in case you want to look alluring in a extra attractive for much less sexual motives and yet be classy, that is a diverse tale. For representation, the girl I in searching maximum beautiful on earth looks useful in a sweater lol! yet my advice would not be to decorate alluring with classification, dress classy with alluring... that's some thing--if he's an rather worth-it guy, he will fall for more effective than only a alluring body--being attracted to classification is a indicator of being a worthwhile dude. And in case you want to be alluring as reliable, discover some thing that matches your structure and shows type or perhaps as grace--with out revealing have your pores and skin interior the gadget. experience me, a guy is a lot able to being sexually distracted with out the aide of low-reduce necklines and thighs protruding of skirts. So in spite of the indisputable fact that of attempting to instruct him into one-visual reveal unit-sex-minded guy, draw his information to different concerns. case in point, that you're able to have an alluring reduce on your clothing, in spite of the indisputable fact that perhaps make it so your face is the most putting, so his interest is on your eyes instead. merely an notion, in spite of the indisputable fact that it truly makes romance plenty extra well worth it in my view even if it isn't about sex.

  • ?
    Lv 6
    8 years ago

    you know "sexy" actually means confidence and not a revealing clothes.

    so why don't you wear something classy and be confidnet and have a great day with him?

    make sure you are comfortable at the party and smiling and enjoying it to the fullest.

  • 8 years ago

    Look classy and be confident with yourself, that's the perfect combination an that's what's truly sexy.

  • 8 years ago

    my personal idea was cover your body with some sexy dress ... cover the body so he wants to see whats inside... that's how u can nab him

  • 8 years ago

    Hmmmm

    something that screams " classy slut"

    How bout a mini skirt, no panties with a scarf?

  • 8 years ago

    show off ur big booty..also y not just give him a *******?

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