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Ladies.. if your man was in love with another woman...?

Would you rather he honor his vows and stay with you or would you rather he set you loose (assuming there are no children)?

Update:

PS, I'm not married, just wondering what people thought.

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  • 8 years ago
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    i would rather him be with the one he loves.. because what hurts the most is when you love someone but they dont love you back.

  • 8 years ago

    Most married men that fall "in love" with other women fail to realize that the grass is greener on the other side because it is usually fertilized with bullshit.

    No, I wouldn't be upset. I'd let him fantasize. I wouldn't give a sh*t. I wouldn't be intimidated. Like it or not....he's chained to me. In fact, if I found out about it, I'd probably tease him relentlessly about it. My husband with an infatuation, being in love, school boy crush. Then I'd laugh and tell him how cute it was. I'd embarrass the sh*t out of him.

    If my husband ever left me for this other woman, the only thing he would leave the marriage with would be the clothes on his back.

    Most women that date married men wouldn't want them nearly as much if they knew what it was like to be married to them.

  • ?
    Lv 7
    8 years ago

    Honey i would let him loose

    No matter how hard you want this to work it wont

    If he loves another then let him go

    I would never want a guy that did,nt love me in return

    i would just be wasting time on a loser

  • 8 years ago

    I'd rather we work out our finances and property etc. fairly first, and then he's free to go.

    I'd rather he be honest and we then work to dissolve the marriage properly, rather than him just walking out. In other words, if he cleans up his mess, I'd like him to go.

  • Anonymous
    8 years ago

    If I loved a man, I wouldn't care what he did. As long as I could still be with him...just to see him...

  • 8 years ago

    You're so mistaken to begin with. There is not such a thing. He doesnt love you, he is not in love with you, everything is a charade. There is nothing there. Honor yourself. Have self-redpect.

  • 8 years ago

    As long as there were no minor children, I'd leave.....

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