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can i please get some perspective on a potential guy i might want to date?

Great guy, military background, hard worker, has nice assets like myself but i don't go out of my way nor does he to communicate or interact as much. Last i spoke to him was 2 saturday's ago & I haven't bothered to reach out until yesterday & that was only because he texted me saying u act real funny towards me. After asking him to explain, he replied saying i haven't heard from u. My thing is, u have my #, if u wanna reach out then do so. Y do i have to be the one doing the chasing. Isn't he supposed to chase me? Now i'm not playing games, i just feel i can take him or leave him. He is my supervisor to be exact so he monitors everything i do but lies about how he gets knowledge of my whereabouts even though he's at another division. Does this guy like me or does he just want to be chased? I cant figure him out.

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  • 8 years ago
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    If hes your supervisor i would just not even go there. it doesnt always end up well.

  • 8 years ago

    Not enough info to tell if he is a player. Does he have other girl friends or a rep? If not, he may actually like you. The lieing about keeping track of you is no big deal and kind of flattering. He likes you so he wants to know what your up to, but just embarassed about acting like a stalker. This is natural.

    Only problem I see is the the work relation. Tread carefully, if things go south, work will be a *****.

  • 8 years ago

    Girls, you are no better than guys, we will NOT put you on a petestal and make you our center of universe. Both people have to show interest. If you act uninterested then yeah he won't talk to you. Call him up or something.

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