Yahoo Answers is shutting down on May 4th, 2021 (Eastern Time) and the Yahoo Answers website is now in read-only mode. There will be no changes to other Yahoo properties or services, or your Yahoo account. You can find more information about the Yahoo Answers shutdown and how to download your data on this help page.

How far into a relationship does this happen?

There is a time in a relationship where power shifts.

First the man is doing the persuing, so he is doing most of the work, while he tries to win the girl.

Eventually, the girl becomes very passionate about the relationship and is now doing everything she can to keep the guy.

Does this happen after the first time they have sex...or another time in your opinion?

Update:

I most likely was stoned

8 Answers

Relevance
  • Favorite Answer

    That never happened to me: since day one both my partner and I always did our best for each other; relationships are not contests to decide who is stronger, they are paths two people choose to walk together, hand in hand, supporting one another since the very first day. When that doesn't happen then it's not a real relationship but just a shallow game.

  • 8 years ago

    The first time with a guy ina relationship, may not be what u expected, the first time u guys do it. The first time u guys actually make love, maybe then you will get emotionally attatched. Just bc its the first time y'all do it , doesn't make the person wanna persue them off gate . It has to be the perfect time, bc who's to say the first time u guys were intoxicated, or wasn't that great. So id say another time in my opinion , where u guys where at the right place, at the right time, where it just hits u .... then its wherever the fate leads u guys after that... :)

  • Anonymous
    8 years ago

    It depends, sometimes it never happens. There are plenty of relationships where the guy remains slightly more into the girl than vice versa. Some relationships the power balance swings back and forth.

    However, on the whole, I would say you are correct, and the power swings upon having sex. Mostly guys now see the chase is over and the girl is "his", so he no longer has to try. Girls now feel more bonded to him than they did before, and also like they've "given something up", so if the relationship fails, their "investment" wasn't worth it.

  • bacher
    Lv 4
    5 years ago

    Do what's gentle for you. First week a %. on the lips at week 3 make out at month 2 or 3 this is common to have oral sex about a three hundred and sixty 5 days to sex yet you ought to attend until eventually your married. As for the others I purely stated what's about the accepted waiting time.

  • Anonymous
    8 years ago

    About 3 screws, lays, making love, sex (you get the point) in.

    Then the women tend to get clingy and possessive. At least, that's what I've witnessed.

  • Anonymous
    8 years ago

    In my experience, the man remains the one doing most of the work.

  • 8 years ago

    It happens just as soon as the control freak know that you were fool enough to fall in love with him.

  • 8 years ago

    Why does your picture make you look stoned?

Still have questions? Get your answers by asking now.