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? asked in Pregnancy & ParentingParenting · 8 years ago

working moms who pump, would you pump in the bathroom?

I'll be coming back to work shortly after my baby is born. As I did with my first two, I plan on pumping for several months.

With DS1, I was given a storage closet without a lock, and told to hang a note on the outside when it was "occupied." That was less than ideal, but worked fine. With DS2, my office had moved and I was given a much larger room, with a lock, that was used for storage. After I was walked-in (they had a key, and entered without knocking when locked) I ended up pumping in my car for the next few months.

I am with a differnt company now and am considering pumping in the bathroom. Would that be "gross" or do you think it's okay? There is storage closet here with a lock, but it is right off the main office, so everyone wold see me enter and exit, and likely be able to hear my pump. Not the privacy I am looking for. The bathroom is about a two minute walk, but it is a single-person fully locking room with a sink. It is right outside a main bathroom as well, so I would not be occupying the only available facility. The only downside is having to sit on the toilet with no lid. Not sure yet how I will manage that.

It has come down to that, or back to my car. At least with the bathroom I can wash all the parts each time I pump, and have privacy. Which is preferable, in your opinion?

Update:

There is no way to roll a chair in there. I have to leave my office to the outdoors, and go to another building. Dragging my office chair own the sidewalk for the two minute walk each way, twice a day would be disruptive, at best. I looked around in the entryway to other building, but there are no moveable chairs over there at all.

Update 2:

I thought about maybe putting a chair in there. I would have to check with facilities to make sure it is not some sort of safety violation. Plus, it is a public use bathroom for anyone who enters the building. Hopefully nobody would walk off with a chair, but you never know.

Update 3:

Whoever gave you the idea that being a mother should be blissful 24/7? You do what you gotta do.

Update 4:

Just because is't not 24/7 bliss does not mean it's torture. I have never felt torture. Like said, you do what you gotta do, the good and the bad.

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  • 8 years ago
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    In your situation, I'd probably use the single bathroom. Like you said, you'll have the privacy you want, you won't be occupying a space that someone else might need at that moment since there's another bathroom, and you'll have access to a sink for washing the parts.

    Maybe you could ask someone if a chair could be made available to you to pull into the bathroom. Even a folding chair would probably be better than a toilet without a lid.

    You could also ask around and see what other people have done or what your boss suggests. Maybe someone will have an idea that you haven't thought of.

  • 8 years ago

    I think pumping in the bathroom can be gross and difficult. Obviously, it depends on the bathroom, since it is an office I would assume that at least it is cleaner than a public stall, but I would be a little suspicious still. Besides, with the manual pump I have, I can foresee a bit of difficulty handling it in the bathroom, just because in my workplace they are very narrow and I need to get into my ideal sitting position in order to get the hang of it.

    I would definitely prefer the place where people can hear me pump, or see that I am going in to pump, than the bathroom. So people know you are going in there to express breast milk? How bad an that be? Better than the car or the bathroom.

  • ?
    Lv 7
    8 years ago

    I have never used the pump at work. I would spend the first 30 minutes disinfecting the place..lol

    What I do is use the pump during the last week of my leave, and then on week ends to maintain a supply for childcare. It is difficult the first week or so, because a) I tend to think about the baby and you know...just the thought produces milk, and b) the body maintains its schedule for a while.

    But, after a couple of weeks, my body becomes acclimated to the new schedule..lol In either case, I carry extra clothing and plenty of disposable pads.

  • 8 years ago

    Would your office mind if you put a folding chair in the bathroom? That might work.

    I have pumped in a public bathroom but only on rare occasions.

  • LizB
    Lv 7
    8 years ago

    I guess you have to do what you have to do. Perhaps you could ask if you could put a padded folding chair either in there (maybe tuck it behind the door) or a nearby storage closet? Even a padded folding chair would be more comfortable than the toilet.

  • D
    Lv 7
    8 years ago

    Roll a chair into the bathroom, and go ahead. It is not ideal but better than not pumping at all, and likely better than pumping in the car.

  • 8 years ago

    I have heard women pumping in our restroom on occasion. Some people may think it is gross, but they are wrong and don't matter. It's surely better than your more open car or a closet.

  • Anonymous
    8 years ago

    This is why I don't intend to even start breastfeeding when I have a kid ... unless maybe I win the lottery and never have to work again. Sitting in a stinky bathroom with a machine attached to my boobs is not my idea of motherly bliss.

    ETA: If you're gonna torture yourself what's the point of having the little rugrats in the first place?

  • Anonymous
    8 years ago

    pump were you can

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