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If there was no s e x ...why would men even date women?

I mean gay men don't try to have relationships with women....so if there was no sex to get...

why would men even start relationships with us?

I don't think they would. I think that most men would chose to hang out with other men.

Update:

@Broseph - 1. At least I won't block you, like you did me

2. I don't really talk shyt about men

3. I have a husband, and no sexual interest in women.

4. If there was no sex, I would most likely still hang out with men. Women are catty, too chatty and are too emotional.

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    Women wouldn't date men either if the whole thing didn't end up with making love! What's the point of dating and being with someone if you cannot get close to them? Honestly, I don't get your point:(...

  • Andy
    Lv 4
    8 years ago

    Maybe if they just enjoy the company of the female and that they just wanted more time with them. And even so, some men are prepared to wait for sex as a moral basis if the woman didn't believe in sex before marriage/ before a certain amount of dates. And sometimes, some men may like a balance between male and female friends but hanging around with mainly females may feel awkward for them in some way.

  • Anonymous
    8 years ago

    I don't date for sex. I don't even press the issue. That is how I have often been able to successfully get laid quickly in my past relationships. I put making a girl feel like a goddess above anything else in a relationship. And no I don't mean kissing up or being a doormat.

    And because I do it like that it makes me more sexy in her eyes.

    I'm not in it just for the sex.

    I would not have tried to sustain and try to hold together a very abusive and toxic relationship with my last girlfriend had I just been in it for the sex.

  • ?
    Lv 4
    8 years ago

    your logic is so simple minded, if there was no sex, humans would cease to exist. no one would ever be born in the first place.

    Also if I was to follow your logic, would the same thing not happen with woman??

    most men like to hang out with ladies some of the time.

    Think before you try to make some sexist statement.

  • Anonymous
    8 years ago

    Wow, you are a sexist pig... I have no problem hanging out with women, some of which are my best friends. As for relationhip, I couldn't care less about sex. Sex is intended to reproduce and nothing else, I have absolutely no desire to bring a child into this horrible world so sex is meaningless. As for the narrow minded trash that make up about 90% of the male population, relationships demand sex for them. You need to meet men and not boys...

  • ?
    Lv 7
    8 years ago

    Gay men do seek out relationships with women, just not romantic or sexual relationships because that's not where their sexual interests lie. Likewise, I have relationships with men that have nothing to do with sex.

    It's sad that you think a woman's only value to a man is to provide sex.

  • 8 years ago

    My male friends don't seem to worry that sex isn't on the agenda.

    Doesn't stop us having fun or being there for each other. And we're all single, so it's not like we're getting our appetites sated elsewhere.

    You're selling both sexes short here. Bigtime.

  • ?
    Lv 4
    8 years ago

    I guess you all stopped being such ***** things would be different. But some men appreciate a womans company, the lucky ones who meet one of the extremely rare human women.

  • 8 years ago

    For a relationship I guess, I don't think you understand what most men want

  • ?
    Lv 4
    5 years ago

    guys would not date women at all if they couldn’t get to have foreplay and sex with them. just because guys need it with women whereas women do not need it with guys, doesn’t mean that you have to an as#hole and mock guys for it. also, i hate it when women say words like “we” as if they’re all hive-minded rather independent-thinking individuals with their own independent thoughts. why do you think guys date women to begin with? it’s because unlike women, they have something called a sex drive and hope to achieve sexual activity with members of the opposite sex. guys actually desire sexual activity with women whereas vice versa is not the case at all. why do you think guys marry women and sleep in the same bed with them? same exact reason.

    1 I don’t think it’s right to block anybody, unless they’re being an extremely horrible person for no reason

    2 there are women are act like totally, utter morons where they talk awful about guys for no reason

    3 I don’t care if you’re married. I hate it when women not only use the excuse that they’re SINGLE to not give guys sex as they use that stupid, pathetic dogma of not having sex while one is single even though marriage could be a bad investment for the guy if it were to end in a divorce, thus meaning that maybe marriage shouldn’t even be happening anyway, but where they EVEN use the excuse that they’re MARRIED. that is so f#cked up and stupid that some women have used all kind of lame, horrible excuses not to give the guy sex with them. if a woman CLAIMS to like me or how I look physically, then if she’s a sexy woman my type that I’m sexually horny for and who I want to have foreplay and sex with, her words mean nothing to me unless she sexually okays me and where I can get sexual with her.

    4 still, what if they’re sexually horny for you and want to engage in at least semi-sexual contact with you, like at least erotically massage your thighs and bikini-clad as# while you’re wearing a sexy bikini bottom?

    and look at all those cases where women hang out with each other instead of guys. don’t sit there and pretend that all women are apparently like you when it comes to who they choose to hang out with, because they’re not. also, guys would rather spend time with women than with each other, and because of that, women should prefer to spend time with guys than with each other.

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