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I'm new at a school and my goal is the be like the most popular ?

Ok so there is one girl who everyone likes and I kinda wanna be more cooler than here make her envyous of me ... Is there anyway to make everyone like me and how can I get a boyfriend ? Also get on teachers good side

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  • 8 years ago
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    Just be overly nice to everyone then everyone will like you and you will become popular. Boys like nice girls so finding a boyfriend wont be hard :-)

  • 8 years ago

    Trying to be the most popular will lead you into a life of unfulfilling expectations and betrayal.

    I guarantee you, if you went up to that popular girl (and if she is just an concerned about popularity as you are) she does NOT have genuine happiness.

    Why would you want to make anyone jealous of you? Don't try.

    How do you get a boyfriend? Don't look for one. Just be nice to everyone and be yourself and guys will come to you. You won't find one until you stop looking.

    Teachers? Behave well in class, try your best, be polite and make good grades. Offer to help out but do not suck up. That offends some teachers.

    All in all, just act like the friend you seek.

    Question: Why are you at a new school?

    Source(s): Trust me. I moved to another high school my sophomore year and "trying" to be popular doens't get you anywhere. That popular girl you want to be like really isn't popular, she is just feared, envied and used by others. People want to be on her good side so that she isn't mean to them and they can get invited to parties. The genuinely liked people are just simply themselves are nice to everyone. I'm in college now and realize I wasted way too much time trying to be liked by everyone. You can never please everyone.
  • 8 years ago

    First off, don't make it your goal to be the most popular and have people envy you. You might be surprised how obvious that attitude is, on anyone.

    Just be yourself. Be kind. Say hello to everyone you like, ask them about their days and actually listen, then comment back. Be humorous in your own way. Take risks. Be thankful. Apply yourself to your classes, join after school activities, and don't be afraid to be a little different from the rest of the populars. You don't want to mimmic any of them, you'll never become the "favorite" that way. Stay out of trouble, *never* do anything because of pressure.

    Most of all, make yourself happy! It's amazing how magnetic a smile can be.

    Good luck <3

  • 8 years ago

    Stop being a catty mean girl. Honestly if your going to get this girl to like you and be your friend just so you can make her jealous you don't deserve to be her friend. The way your acting now nobody will ever like you. No one likes a cold hearted inhuman person. Boyfriend? Wow how low can you get. Do you really need a boyfriend? You probably do because your extremley dependent on people. Gosh do I feel sorry for people like you who are so egotistic, fake, and a wannabe. If your GOAL is to be most popular have fun being a mcdonalds cashier.

    Source(s): someone realistic
  • 8 years ago

    I am also a new student this year too!

    I think the main thing to be "popular" is to talk a lot and make people laugh. Make people feel like you're a really cool person.

  • 8 years ago

    I would have loved a girl to come up to me and start talking to me. But, some guys not all are shallow and won't talk to you cuz you don't have friends yet. that is someone who you don't want as your bf. Go up and talk to guys. Girls that talk to guys are the most popular in High school. they won't be mean to you like girls they will want to talk to you, and probably say dumb **** cuz they are nervous so be gentle. If you get good grades, that is all that matters to teachers they don't care about your personal life.

  • 8 years ago

    Wantin the other chic 2 be envious of you doesn't define cool...neither does goin round hunting for boyfriends....cool is defined by a sweet personality and respect and not hunting for image...naw dats cool

  • Anonymous
    8 years ago

    bad idea, people in the long run don't want fakes or wannabes, so you need to be yourself, having friends, having people like you is no different in the new school than in the school you just came from, be honest, be friendly, don't lie or gossip, be helpful, smile, be happy, be friendly, don't be easy, don't whine, complain

  • 8 years ago

    be pretty, have attitude (be able to control it), be funny.

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