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my best friend likes me!!?

I have this amazing best friend. I mean she's been there for me since grade 9. and we are now in grade 11. we are both girls. i dont like girls im straight, shes lesbian. She told me that she likes me and i give her alot of respect for telling me that. But thing got awkward. and i just get annoyed with her. I feel bad that im mean to her sometimes but she is just frustrating. Like shes always asking to hang out with me outside of school and i feel uncomfortable. and in class she'll do something (like get up and get a piece of paper) and she'll look at me cuz she thinks im looking at her. I love her (like a best friend) but she really loves me. more then a best friend. And she knows that i dont go that way. she keeps asking me to sleepover and i dont want to bcuz she mite try something. please help me. what do i do. ?? OH and whenever i talk about my BOY crushes she'll be like "OMG u like to many guys." And one more thing is she'll text me "I need a gf, i feel so lonely!" im just like "besty ur 17 wait for love to come to u. stop stressin."

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  • Anonymous
    8 years ago

    Tell her you dont like her that way but you like her as a best freind and that she doesnt need the stress of trying to get together with you and if you do by any chance decide you like girls you might get with her

  • Anonymous
    8 years ago

    She feels one way, you feel another. I don't want to be one to point out the obvious but it needs stating. you need to be firm but friendly. explain, but don't act awkward so just do the sleep overs. if she makes a move then firmly say to her no firmly but at the same time gently as you don't want to ruin your friendship. Finally you must set boundaries and explain them clearly, but insert them into conversations, don't just spurt them out like the riot act.

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