My GF went through my Facebook and saw old messages.?

For starters, the baby shouldn’t be the only reason you’re not going to cheat on her. Second, she shouldn’t be going through your messages. Once things cool down, you might want to have a talk about privacy. If you don’t do that to her, she shouldn’t be doing that to you. I’ve been with my boyfriend for a year, and there are certain things we just keep to ourselves. A little privacy is not a bad thing. Also, if you’v been honest with her about your past, it shouldn’t be a problem. If it was before you started dating, it shouldn’t be a problem. And, bottom line, everyone makes mistakes and forever is a long time. Forgiveness is a CRUCIAL aspect of a relationship/lasting love. If you keep her informed of your whereabouts, who your with, etc., and devote time to her as well, there really shouldn’t be a problem. If there is, and you’ve done all of this to make sure she’s happy and informed, and that you’re being honest and faithful, and she still has a problem…then it is DEFINITELY HER problem, and there’s probably not much you can do about it, except to continue to talk to her about it in a mature manner, and maybe lightly suggest that she do some soul searching, and give herself some alone time to be able to sort out some of her feelings.

You have to admit it would be pretty upsetting to find info like that on your girlfriend's facebook right? Although if you have trust then neither of you should be going through the others facebook. At the moment your girlfriend is pregnant which means body changes, nausea, hormones running wild so for her to be acting a bit irrational makes perfect sense. Just reassure her and be there for her. Once you understand that a lot of this has to do with the pregnancy itself it wont bother you so much. Water off a ducks back.

Girls need reassurance. If you continue to be honest and upfront with her, and she loves you, then she will come around. I'm sure with a baby coming that its a huge life change and no one wants to take a huge step in life alone; especially one your suppose to take with someone you love, and feel confliction or doubt. So just continue to reassure her and hopefully after the baby is born and she sees how much this new direction in life means to you she will believe you and have faith in your relationship to last! Good luck!!

most of the time people get caught is because they are too stupid to hit delete. if the messages were old why didnt you just delete them and save yourself the aggravation. i delete messages soon as i read them

tell her the reality and convince her that you will be fully devoted to her in future.That was your past and it is not a wise idea to discuss about past.You both will never get anything by discussing those past which you want to forgot. Hope she will realize it.