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Isla asked in Family & RelationshipsFriends · 8 years ago

thought he was a nice guy, completely wrong?!?

This guy in my class i thought i could trust apparently trash talks me and calls me a S-L-U-T behind me back. I thought he was a nice guy and there were no romantic feelings i had for him whatsoever - but even so i feel so betrayed for being so bubbly and cheerful towards him and everyone else as i am normally. I thought he was my friend, as he chatted openly with me over facebook and acted slightly interested in me. I'm usually with the guys, don't really sit like a proper lady, )i admit) and act sort of perverted and playful when the guys are trying to be funny. I smile alot and laugh with everyone, people sometimes call me a flirt when i'm not, i'm just friendly. I'm upset and have to see him tomorrow... if he talks to me, how should i react?

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  • 8 years ago
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    Girl, you need to lower you expectations.

  • 8 years ago

    First figure out if he really did call you a **** behind your back. If he did, I'd give him the cold shoulder if I were you LOL. Stop laughing at his jokes, stop being bubbly towards him for a bit. Don't instigate anything, but I think being more serious around him will show him a side of you he hasn't seen, and if he does think you're a ****, it'll prove to him you can be serious and mature, too.

    And also...YOU might think you're just being friendly, but if you're being kinda pervy, even if it's in a playful way, that can totally be seen as flirty. Don't change the way you are, but do some self-reflecting with an open mind.

  • Anonymous
    8 years ago

    Well, when he will meet you, just ask him do you love me. You should not react happily but in a bit sad manner. Make him as emotional as you can. I hope things will go better.

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