Is lust for your own wife bad?

You can't win bro.. if you are always interested, you are all hands and a perv.... if you don't sniff around enough, you are neglective and disinterested. 17 years into my marriage and my wife still doesn't get that I would rather make love, have sex, do the nasty, instead of watching "Survivor" or "Big Bang Theory"... for my wife sex is something fun to do before she falls asleep and if she has not already taken a bath... for me it is the perfect answer for why nothing got done around the house all weekend long.

Give her some space; maybe she has obligations at work or is extremely tired physically and mentally. Trust me, when she wants to be intimate with you, and if she truly loves you, she will let you know. Men are not the only ones that get urges, lol. If she feels that you only want sex and that you have an alterior motive, she willl feel pressured.

While it is good that you only have desires for your wife. Just lay off and allow things to evolve naturally; do things for her you normally would not do and see how she reacts. Good luck.

It is good you desire her above all others. However women can feel a bit over desired believe it or not. What you can do is talk to her. Tell her you love her very much and want to show that with her phsically. Ask her in what ways can you show her this love that isnt intrusive to her. Showing deep caring, non expecting love is a turn on for most women.

Watch a chick flick with her. Offerto give her massage. Cuddle her and listen to her problems. Give her gentle kisses around neck, cheeks, tummy, inner thighs. She will be very happy to have sex. Learn to change your partner's mood.

your wife is foolish if she behaves this way, to find such a loving huuby us her good luck. you may comunicate him about you lush and also show her this question on yahoo. I hope shee will understand

Women look at it differently than men do.

I still don't understand it either.

Take care of yourself if you catch my drift.

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