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Would it have been better to not take my boyfriend back after he told me he cheated on me?

I love him very much and he seemed sincere when he apologized and everything..but I can't stop worrying that he's still talking to the girl even when he said he would stop..what do I do? I can't let him go..:/

Update:

We have been dating for six months. He told me that he saw her multiple times while I thought he was at work. He said he kissed her and that they sexted.

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  • Pug
    Lv 7
    8 years ago
    Favorite Answer

    " I can't let him go..:/"

    That makes this question irrelevant. If you can't let him go, but you don't

    trust him, then you can either get used to being miserable or learn to

    live in denial. I mean, you either trust him or you don't.

    You don't.

    If you did, you wouldn't wonder.

    So, either get used to being miserable or master how to ignore your feelings.

  • 8 years ago

    You can't be in a relationship if there is no trust. Because love wouldn't be enough and it would be meaningless. Think twice first. Being in a relationship doesn't mean being ready to get hurt again. It's how you give your whole trust once more with out having any worries. :))

  • 8 years ago

    Ick. Let him go. He cheated on you. Have respect for yourself. And he is still talking to her? NO WAY! You will only keep getting hurt and ruin yourself over a cheating little boy.

  • Skylar
    Lv 6
    8 years ago

    he may be sorry & sincere about it, but it doesn't mean he still 'loves' you.

    what did he do with her? how long have you been dating? i don't know. i feel like i'd just break up with him. it's not really worth your time. unless he was like drunk & just kissed her.. then. meh.

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