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my girlfriend wont have sex with me?

hi i am a 26 year old guy and i have had alot of girlfriends in my life. I have a new girlfriend and she is 21 she is also a virgin and i was the first guy to kiss her and her first boyfriend, we have been dating over 3 months and we dated for 1 month 2 years ago. I really feel hard up and i cant help it, i have never cheated on a girl and i don't ever want too. i have been jerking off alot and chatting with my x a little more than i would like. we havent talked about sex at all and we don't even french kiss but sometimes she teases me and it drives me nuts. Can any one help me so i know what she may be going through? I know she is really into me and i don't want to hurt her but if i could just get layed i think i would be alot more relaxed? I want to know from a girls point of view whats so wrong with having sex anyways? Does any one know a way i can talk to her about it and not make her feel awkward?

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  • 8 years ago
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    just get more physical next time you make out. If she gets into it, keep going until she hesitates. If not, talk about and it's not that akward.

  • 8 years ago

    Whoa, she's probably put off by you needing it so much. Just relax and focus on developing the relationship with her, put sex on the back burner for now. Do NOT talk to your ex any more, or you'll lose your present girlfriend. She is probably rightly worried that you don't care for her (especially since you left her before) but just want sex, all the evidence in your track record is that you use and lose girls. You need to let things develop slowly, at her pace, not yours - and talk about this stuff too, so she knows where you are. When you know if the relationship is "the" one or not you can suggest having sex, or even better propose as that'll put her mind at rest that you're serious - or if you can't wait that long and don't care for her that way, then you should dump her and move to an easier girl, as that will be fairer to her in the long run.

  • Anonymous
    8 years ago

    All I can say is that you should take it one step at a time. Talk to her, find out what makes it awkward for her everytime youz try? Or just take it easy and just let it come whenever? :)

    This probably wasn't much of a help but I hope you got an idea out of it :)xx Good luck <3

  • Anonymous
    8 years ago

    Sounds like sex is really important in a relationship to you and not at all to her. Talk to her and explain it's something you need. If she doesn't understand, it may be a sign it's not going to work.

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