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Do you take an ex back?
So he split with me last year to be with someone else and I haven spoken to him since march. Heart broken is not the word!
Anyway I finally felt well enough to speak to him so I sent him a message to see how he was as I never hated him for it, I always said you can't help how you feel. we talked a little and that was that. A week later he contacted me and confessed he still misses me and that he shouldn't still feel this way. I said he needed to sort his head out, as he had a gf. Three days later he has split from her and wants to get back with me.
I still love him and do slowly want to see how I feel, not seen him yet just texting. But how should I act, I want him to know I would give it another try but I don't want him to think all is forgiven, and that it will all go back to normal. I want him to know how upset I was.
5 Answers
- Anonymous8 years ago
That's the thing is not going to be the way it used to be. Trust will be lost and wounds will still be really tender. Are not afraid he will do this again?? The odds are that he will and that goes for anybody else who did that. Sounds like he meet this girl when he was with you probably cheated, thought she would be better than you so he left you and come to find out she wasnt better than you so know he wants to get back with you. Doesn't sound very good does it. I've done this before with my ex and the relationship wasn't the same after we got back together and even though it lasted two more years it sucked, I had girls on the side and smoked weed everyday just to get through it, finally it ended for good, and I'm much happier and a better person from it!
- 8 years ago
He was missing you?are you sure he loves you?why did he wait until you came around again looking like you moved on to want you back?why did he wait until you came around to break up with her?do you really have proof that he did?cheaters do change but it takes someone to hurt them real bad for them to understand and this isn't the case.and you clearly haven't moved on because you contacted him again,moving on means finding better not regressing.he already knows you want to give it another try.he's very aware of it.how many times does he have to cheat on you before you understand?you don't leave someone you love for someone you like.understand that if he loved you he wouldn't. Have cheated knowing he would lose you.it's ok to talk to an ex but not ok to get back with.it's called ex for a reason.would you reuse dirty toilet paper?no!! So MOVE ON
Source(s): This is how life works you might want him but he might not be who you need,who is right for you.good luck - Mai CLv 68 years ago
Unless you are a really cheap type f person, you would not consider having an EX back, specially if he has had another in the interim
- 8 years ago
Once a cheater, always a cheater. You're better off finding someone else who will respect you enough to not cheat on you. Don't waste your time with that guy.
