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We had been together for two years and he split we me to be with someone else, after no contact for 9 months, I contacted him for the first time about six months ago, he told me he still has feelings for me and that he should never have broke up with me. He broke it off with the girl he broke my heart for and now we have been back together for six months.

Our sex life has dwindled and we have sex about once a week, I know that's an OK amount as we would settle back into a comfortable relationship a lot faster but it was never like this. When we do have sex it is always the same and always a quickie. I'm to blame as much as him as I never initiate and always wait for him. How can I approach the subject without putting him on the spot and making him feel like its him? I don't want to break up with him as I truly love him, but I need more intimacy, we don't even snog anymore and I am always the one who gives him a kiss.

I need some advice because I am going crazy.

So he split with me last year to be with someone else and I haven spoken to him since march. Heart broken is not the word!

Anyway I finally felt well enough to speak to him so I sent him a message to see how he was as I never hated him for it, I always said you can't help how you feel. we talked a little and that was that. A week later he contacted me and confessed he still misses me and that he shouldn't still feel this way. I said he needed to sort his head out, as he had a gf. Three days later he has split from her and wants to get back with me.

I still love him and do slowly want to see how I feel, not seen him yet just texting. But how should I act, I want him to know I would give it another try but I don't want him to think all is forgiven, and that it will all go back to normal. I want him to know how upset I was.

So I have started my own youi tube channel on make up and id love to know how to make it successful. What stands out and gets people watching?

so I split up with my ex exactly a year ago. and havent spoke to him since march. I had to cut contact to get over him. Anyway he added me of fb yesterday and i messaged him asking how he was. we chatted for a few messages an he never replied to my last email. After thinking ive got him nearly out of my head, he is creeping back in. How do I stop myself from over thinking? he hasnt replied and i am now always checking to see if hes replied. HELP i need to stop. he definatly doesnt want me back as he is with someone else and the few messages were only friendly. I need to stop thinking about him before I start thinking there is more to this then there actually is. any ideas

I have a interview tomorrow for a police call handler job. I'm just wondering if anyone's been through it so I cannot know what to expects?

Well cut a long story short I was with my ex for 2 years, never argued, he's started new job, four months later out of the blue he split with me to be with his new work collegue.

Now that was 9 months ago, and I'm STILL not over him! I have done everything I should, start excersicing, start a degree next month, been on dates (all be it not many) I go out with friends, I'm

Looking for a new job, even everytime I think of him i try and change my thought pattern. I have tried everything. Yet he is still the first thought in the morning, last at night. I cannot get him out of my head! Is it normal to still be hopelessly in love with your ex even if he has well and truly moved on. I haven't spoken to him in 7 months or seen him since the day I walked out of the door 9 months ago. How on earth am I supposed to get over him. I wish I could meet someone else but I just don't find any other guy attractive! it's horrible! Someone please help!

Well, I was in a perfect world with my bf we had been dating for two years, no arguments and I thought everything was fine. One morning he woke up and said that things weren't the same an he wanted to break up. He said he no longer wanted to be in a relationship anymore and wanted to be single. Anyway we split nd two weeks later he was dating his work collegue.

I was absolutely heartbroken. Everything thing I knew and dreamed off had vanished just like that. It's been seven months. I don't speak to him and haven't seen him since the day we split. But I am still crying like a baby at the mention of his name. All can think about is him and his new gf and how they will be falling in love and being intimate. Is it normal to feel this way after so long? I've done everything I should, cut all contact, I don't stalk his fb, I've been on dates with other guys but I am still hung up! Had anyone got any advice to help me an have you ever been in this situation? My friends say they know how I feel, but the difference is they all chose to leave their relationship. They didn't get dumpe out of the blue, and now their ex is falling for someone else. So its not the same! I would have down anything to get back with him, but know I just don't understand why he's done this to me. Please for say you need to move on because I know! I am really trying!!! I still love him so much, and it was such a shock.

Do I wish him happy birthday.

My bf split with me a week before Christmas. After two years of being with him, he left me for someone else. She works with him for the last six weeks of our relationships, at a cozy company where they are all couples and therefore have the same social group. He broke my heart well and truly.

We got on really well as friends and never argued. He was two years younger than me and I think he has got scared of the commitment I wanted. We never discussed any issues then out of the blue and I mean out of the blue he wanted to split because ‘things were different’.

I think he may have left as she was more exciting and of the same age (21) as everyone know long relationships are not as exciting, his boss used to say he was too young to be with one girl and we would never last. Guess he was right!

The problem is I want him back. I know it will take time but you know when you just know? Well I just know that im going to marry him. I think he needs to spread his wings and be young. He had never been on a lads holiday and has always had a gf from the age of 17 so I still think he wants to be young. I don’t hate him for this, quite the opposite, I totally get it. Ive had all the going out and girls holidays and him splitting with me was a good idea but I always feel we never had a chance. We never properly discussed our break up as he was already dating his new gf two weeks after we split. Don’t get me wrong I know hes an idiot but I feel like he had a lot of pressure from his boss. Sounds stupid I know and naive but I really think this as I know what kind of person he is.

Anyway it was my birthday last week and as I have had no contact for the past 3 months he never wished me happy birthday. Partly because I think he thinks I hate him, but as we never discussed our break up he doesn’t know the truth. His birthday is this Saturday and I told myself not to say happy birthday but being mature would it be the right thing to do? I want him back and will get him eventually, think he needs to grow up a bit which I am willing to give him time. If a guy comes up in the mean time I will date, but I still will always love him. I just feel it like in my gut.

Do I wish him happy birthday.

My bf split with me a week before Christmas. After two years of being with him, he left me for someone else. She works with him for the last six weeks of our relationships, at a cozy company where they are all couples and therefore have the same social group. He broke my heart well and truly.

We got on really well as friends and never argued. He was two years younger than me and I think he has got scared of the commitment I wanted. We never discussed any issues then out of the blue and I mean out of the blue he wanted to split because ‘things were different’.

I think he may have left as she was more exciting and of the same age (21) as everyone know long relationships are not as exciting, his boss used to say he was too young to be with one girl and we would never last. Guess he was right!

The problem is I want him back. I know it will take time but you know when you just know? Well I just know that im going to marry him. I think he needs to spread his wings and be young. He had never been on a lads holiday and has always had a gf from the age of 17 so I still think he wants to be young. I don’t hate him for this, quite the opposite, I totally get it. Ive had all the going out and girls holidays and him splitting with me was a good idea but I always feel we never had a chance. We never properly discussed our break up as he was already dating his new gf two weeks after we split. Don’t get me wrong I know hes an idiot but I feel like he had a lot of pressure from his boss. Sounds stupid I know and naive but I really think this as I know what kind of person he is.

Anyway it was my birthday last week and as I have had no contact for the past 3 months he never wished me happy birthday. Partly because I think he thinks I hate him, but as we never discussed our break up he doesn’t know the truth. His birthday is this Saturday and I told myself not to say happy birthday but being mature would it be the right thing to do? I want him back and will get him eventually, think he needs to grow up a bit which I am willing to give him time. If a guy comes up in the mean time I will date, but I still will always love him. I just feel it like in my gut.

We all know some, better to have loved and lost then never to have loved before, life goes on, etc. but what are your best life quotes when dealing with heartbreak or any other?

I was with a guy for two years. Was fine and regularly told me he loved me and then out of the blue he said he's been feeling differently. He had met someone else. He said he'd been feeling this way for 6 weeks even tho we'd been together for two years. He's now been with his new gf for 5 months. How can he turn off his feelings so quickly? The same thing happen to my friend. Her bf of three years who she has a child with met someone else and left her. Stopped feeling the way he did so suddenly. So my question is do guys actually feel love like women do? How can they stop their feelings so quick?

I was with a guy for two years. Was fine and regularly told me he loved me and then out of the blue he said he's been feeling differently. He had met someone else. He said he'd been feeling this way for 6 weeks even tho we'd been together for two years. He's now been with his new gf for 5 months. How can he turn off his feelings so quickly? The same thing happen to my friend. Her bf of three years who she has a child with met someone else and left her. Stopped feeling the way he did so suddenly. So my question is do guys actually feel love like women do? How can they stop their feelings so quick?

In english law, does anybody know the hold a father of a child has on, who their child can see.

I have split from a long term partner of who I have two children with and I have started seeing someone else. Our children all get on, and have become friends. I have told my ex partner about this, as we still have to live together, does he have any right to stop my children seeing my new boyfriend?

Should i email him to let him know?

Need to see what other people think! My boyfriend split up with me a week before Christmas to be with someone else. He originally lied as to why he didn't want to be with me to say he just wanted to be single, when it turned out really he liked someone at work. It really really hurt me, he bought her flowers for valentines day and had begun taking her out about two weeks after we split. things he never did for me. He started work at a new job anfd his boss was always dropping hints that he was too young to settle down and that we would never last. When we meet two years ago he had just split with his ex and she was dating someone knew. I have always felt that he didnt pick me, just quickly got with me because his ex had a new bf. but we did date for two years

they made it official last month and i haven't spoke to him since. He text me last weekend to ask how i was. I said fine and left it at that. He has the opinion that i dislike him and he things hes a dick which in many ways he is for not being with me, and doing little things which have hurt me which im sure he didnt mean too.

I don't hate the guy, he did the right thing, he didn't cheat and he broke up with me for the right reasons. Don't get me wrong it was only for the fact that he met someone else and wasn't ready for a serious relationship with me. Im not deluded I know there must be other factors as i cant see him ending a two year relationship with me just on the basis of he like someone else.

I just want to see if anyone thinks i should text him to let him know that i don't hate him, as he may think, he did do the right thing. I don't know if the reason fo me wanting to get in touch is either for a bit of closure, or because i want him to know i don't hate him for the chance we will eventually get back together when hes finished with her. It said to think that we are not going to be together again and that he has moved on, i just cannot get it into my head that we are completely over. We never argued and i do really like him as a friend but i cant be his friend when he is with someone else as it hurts to much. I live like twenty mins away from him and we dont have mutual friend so i will never see him again, which is so sad to think. Deep down I know life isnt a fairytale and that the chances of us getting back together is like never. But there is alwasy stupid hope. He will fall in love with this girl and he never fought to save us. He left at the first drop.

I also resent the fact that I have not seen him since i stepped foot out of his dorr when he said that he wanted a break, and the only person he has seen since then is her and his boss who wanted them to get together so they can play happy families in the small shp they work in.

So many point to this story so that you get the whole feel. I know we wont get back together because life doesnt work like that.

please help do I contact him?

Need to see what other people think! My boyfriend split up with me a week before Christmas to be with someone else. He originally lied as to why he didn't want to be with me to say he just wanted to be single, when it turned out really he liked someone at work. It really really hurt me, he bought her flowers for valentines day and had begun taking her out about two weeks after we split. things he never did for me. He started work at a new job anfd his boss was always dropping hints that he was too young to settle down and that we would never last. When we meet two years ago he had just split with his ex and she was dating someone knew. I have always felt that he didnt pick me, just quickly got with me because his ex had a new bf. but we did date for two years

they made it official last month and i haven't spoke to him since. He text me last weekend to ask how i was. I said fine and left it at that. He has the opinion that i dislike him and he things hes a dick which in many ways he is for not being with me, and doing little things which have hurt me which im sure he didnt mean too.

I don't hate the guy, he did the right thing, he didn't cheat and he broke up with me for the right reasons. Don't get me wrong it was only for the fact that he met someone else and wasn't ready for a serious relationship with me. Im not deluded I know there must be other factors as i cant see him ending a two year relationship with me just on the basis of he like someone else.

I just want to see if anyone thinks i should text him to let him know that i don't hate him, as he may think, he did do the right thing. I don't know if the reason fo me wanting to get in touch is either for a bit of closure, or because i want him to know i don't hate him for the chance we will eventually get back together when hes finished with her. It said to think that we are not going to be together again and that he has moved on, i just cannot get it into my head that we are completely over. We never argued and i do really like him as a friend but i cant be his friend when he is with someone else as it hurts to much. I live like twenty mins away from him and we dont have mutual friend so i will never see him again, which is so sad to think. Deep down I know life isnt a fairytale and that the chances of us getting back together is like never. But there is alwasy stupid hope. He will fall in love with this girl and he never fought to save us. He left at the first drop.

I also resent the fact that I have not seen him since i stepped foot out of his dorr when he said that he wanted a break, and the only person he has seen since then is her and his boss who wanted them to get together so they can play happy families in the small shp they work in.

So many point to this story so that you get the whole feel. I know we wont get back together because life doesnt work like that.

please help do I contact him?

My boyfriend split up with me a week before christmas to be with some one else. I havent spoke to him since they made it official as i have cut him off.

He text me yesterday and asked how i was. I said im fine and he said i hope we can talk more in the future. What does this mean? is he feeling guilty for the way he treated me?

My boyfriend split up with me a week before christmas to be with some one else. I havent spoke to him since they made it official as i have cut him off.

He text me yesterday and asked how i was. I said im fine and he said i hope we can talk more in the future. What does this mean? is he feeling guilty for the way he treated me?

he left me out of the blue, no arguing, no clue, for someone else. Will i ever get over him?

I can't seem to come to terms with the fact that im never going to see him again after two years of being with him. its been three months and he is already dating his work colleague and she is the reason he left, her liked her and fell out of love with me, but he never spoke to me about how he felt. just left. i done the pleading, ive done the no contact, ive done the new hobbies, talk to friends keep myself busy but none of it works. I still keep thinking that one day he will change his mind and realize im the one he loves, but that's my heart talking, my head says people don't get back together and i need to get a grip and move on but it hurts so badly to think he doesn't think of me the same way i do.

Please help!

he left me out of the blue, no arguing, no clue, for someone else. Will i ever get over him?

I can't seem to come to terms with the fact that im never going to see him again after two years of being with him. its been three months and he is already dating his work colleague and she is the reason he left, her liked her and fell out of love with me, but he never spoke to me about how he felt. just left. i done the pleading, ive done the no contact, ive done the new hobbies, talk to friends keep myself busy but none of it works. I still keep thinking that one day he will change his mind and realize im the one he loves, but that's my heart talking, my head says people don't get back together and i need to get a grip and move on but it hurts so badly to think he doesn't think of me the same way i do.

Please help!

I am thinking of getting a weave as hair extensions, but im just wondering, how are you supposed to wash it?