Nobody likes me, I can't figure out why I'm so repulsive?

u r being to hard on yourself after all somebody must have liked u at some point in ue life u do have a son remember.

looks aside (because lots of ugly people have lots of friends) it must be ur personality u might be putting out a negative vibe like desperation, clingy, needy , user, a taker , thief, bad person, or selfish, conceded, apathetic,

Hollie than tho, uncaring, dirty, conniving, careless, snitch, blabber mouth, rumor starter, liar, impatient, demanding, think ur smarter than others, or better than others, talks only about the bad things that happen ,

jealous of others , piloting to harm others, paranoid, hanging out with the wrong crowd, no ambition, watch to much tv and think its the way life is supposed to be,

delusional, depressed, bi polar, unstable, bad habits, no habits, no hobbies, un willing to accept advice or constructive criticism. these are just a few reasons u might not be liked.

it could be all in ur head and people really do like u u just don't accept it .

\ so to fix ur problem take a good honest look at ur personality. wipe it clean start over .

try acting happy even if ur not , smile at every body u see , help every body u meat if u can, agree with every body u talk to. get a job u like find a Hobie u like,

quit watching tv ,

go shopping w ur son,

be respectful of other people and property,

don't lie steel or talk bad about others,

rejoice in others good fortune don't be jealous of others,

be thankful for what u have.

watch the movie title "law of attraction" as many times as it takes till u understand it

completely. and u will be a completely new person. it works for every one EVERYONE even you.

YOLO

then watch the movie 'what the bleep do we know"

ps if this advice doesn't work for you i'll give u back ur ten points

You are MENTALLY ugly, and that is going to make no guy want to deal with you no matter how physically attractive you are. Until you realize you aren't ugly you are going to turn off guys. Yeah it's a vicious cycle. I'd say find a new therapist though since the one you have isn't helping by your own wording.

Concentrate on your hobbies, likes and occupy yourself in achieving your goals, be happy in your world, help people when they really are helpless and don't do it just because you need freinds, when someone stares at you for 3 secs look at them with confidence and give a small smile and if they don't return smile within 1 sec don't bother start minding you own work, don't be desperate, don't always be available for others, don't do things which will make people to take you for granted, dress well it doesnt mean were expensive branded clothes, wear washed, ironed clothes, a light deo spray, comb your hair properly, always have pleasant expressions on your face, doesn't mean you must keep on smiling for no reasons, stay happy and stay young forever

Its highly likely people respond badly to your because of your body language.

People really don't have a lot to go on and make snap decisions on first meet/first impression.

Confident, welcoming and friendly people hold their heads up when people walk in to a room, look people directly in the eye and smile, or at least a hint of a smile. Their shoulders are held up they don't sit scrunched over.

Have a think about how your posture is. How your facial expression is, are you sitting with the look of dread on your face due to expecting people to dislike you? There are so many things that make people dismiss you and in truth if you ASKED THEM they couldn't answer you immediately, we do it on auto pilot.

Other things that people easily dismiss others for, especially when you're young is: Clothing style, looking scruffy, unkept hair (reads as someone who doesn't care much about themselves or anyone else) - all these things that build a first impression are so shallow but so relevant how people take you.

Take a look at yourself first and not with this mindset that you are hate material.

You say people are doing this as they walk in to a room, without speaking to you. They are ONLY going on first impressions.. so, check yours.

It wouldn't do you any harm to watch videos or read articles on confident, friendly and likable people.

the reason u think u give off a bad vibe is because thats what uve made yourself think. U need to be more active and talkative when u meet people. e.g when u meet a doctor, start a light conversation with him e.g how has his day been? etc people who get liked by other people is because they lighten other peoples moods by cracking jokes, being good at starting convos so i think u should start doing the same and believe me it will work :)

I think you may have to try and stop wondering how others feel about you. I have found that if you love yourself and those who are closest to you (your son) that's what is most important. It sounds like there is a self esteem issue going on more than anything. Try and concentrate on what it will take to build up your confidence, I feel this will help.

Please tell your issue to this professional counselor. It is free. 800 448 3000. This is a FREE counseling hotline for anybody who is a child or a teen (or a parent with a problem with their child). They are very helpful! They are open 24/7. Their website is yourlifeyourvoice.org (Google it.)....... Sincerely, a person who cares about you, Richard Joseph Kutney . . . Hurry up and write down the info because there's a reporter troll who has been deleting all of my answers! They must be jealous that I am giving very helpful answers.

heh now stop this. there is definitely many people out there who will like you and love you. you must be at a down point in your life but i assure you everything will turn out ok. there is always a light at the end of the tunnel. just keep heading towards it. i will be your friend for starters and i am sure others will too. chin up and please start feeling better from now .

dave - write back to me - i have an email addy in profile

p.s. what country are you in ?

don't be overly nice

everytime I even act nice to someone, they don't like me either.. I honestly don't know why.

Just smile, and be polite

don't cover your face, don't stare, don't try too hard

Seriously, if you're naturally nice person that is something to be proud of!! Never change that

You need to start to love yourself first. How you see the world is the way the world will see you.

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