what can be done in this situation?

I'm sure you could, since you have joint custody. I'm surprised a parenting plan wasn't written up. My boyfriends ex and he were very specific - down to the holidays, birthdays, vacations etc. If you don't have one yet, you should think about getting one written up. If you do have one, perhaps you should think about adding a section in there for this type of situation.

Hope you don't have to go through court and she just says yes. Getting along/cooperating will be the best thing for your daughter.

What's in the best interest for your daughter? Are the grandparents retired so that their time can be given to their granddaughter? Do you work and if so how will your daughter be taken care of when she gets out of school for a few hours when you're working? You seem like a responsible and a good father, work with the grandparents and see if you can pick her up everyday after your work and have dinner with your daughter and maybe even take her to school in the morning. Work with the situation in your daughter's best interest in heart.

Of course you can go to ocurt - but you'll need to ask your lawyer about the chances of succeeding. DR - Drug Rehab?

wow... a dominican woman over the age of 18 with only one kid? wow, they should make a wax statue outta her @ the Ripley's museum!