Would gay men like me?

Your a bottom not a woman. Bottom only refers to the position you play when it comes to anal. There are some very manly and dominant bottoms out there. But I guess your trying to say your a bottom and submissive. And yes you will find someone mainly. In fact most gay men act that way and that's why they can be hard to find because they blend in with the rest. You should consider online dating (avoid Craigslist). It can help you find Mr.Right .

There are many gay men that would like you how you describe yourself here, even if it is only to sh@g your sweet butt stupid and then leave. But maybe you might benefit from reviewing how you perceive a gay bottom should be, because you refer to the 'woman' in the relationship and for most gay guys, that is not how they think.

A bottom guy is usually deemed to be the one taking and receiving, but the reality is that in many relationships and even one night hook ups, a bottom guy can be as dominant and physically active as the top guy, with the bottom guy riding the top guy like a cowboy rides a stallion. A bottom guy who just lays there like a wet fish while he gets humped is unlikely to appeal to most guys, because they also like a guy to respond, show affection and take part in all the physical and intimate things that lead up to sh@gging.

If you really look, there are more gay guys around than you think. You cannot see them because they are no different to the next guy. You being effeminate or camp or whatever is cool if that is what feels right for you. But you lower your options if that is too obvious because most gay guys are attracted to guys not girls, so girlie guys are not most guy's cup of tea.

The best way for you to find the kind of guy you seek is to get your sweet butt out and about and interact with like minded guys. Kerb your desire to act feminine if you can, but be yourself and be natural, fun and open minded about what you perceive as 'straight acting' and manly.

No self respecting gay guy ever wants to act straight, because they don't want to be straight, but we can be and are as manly, muscular and butch as any straight guy.

Crikey, if we were straight, we would have missed out big time.

Seriously....???

Why would you think every gay guy would be like yourself and what is this bottom thing? Hell, if you really want to know the truth, taking it in the *** doesn't make you a bottom. I've seen straight dudes take it in the butt and they not only like chicks, they date them as well. Before you say anything, it's called gay for pay. But in any case, you're not suppose to be out there looking for some gay guy to plug your butt hole. You're suppose to be out there looking for someone to love. Where did you get the idea that that's what it's all about? If you're horny for some dude to plug your hole, just goto a regular bar or something. I'm sure any straight drunk guy will be only too happy to help you. A straight acting gay guy wouldn't give you the time of day because he knows for sure that you're just a one night stand or someone you want to use for your own pleasure. Not cool dude, not cool at all. And yeah, there are plenty of them. Your problem is that you're not just looking for that, you're looking for some dude you think is hot and can turn you on for the night. Won't happen. Sorry man.

I'm not the most masculine guy ever but I'm also not camp.

Only one person knows I'm bisexual and the only other person to ever wonder if I'm gay is my dad.

I think people see me as one of the less manly straight guys. I'm not into sports but I like cars, action movies and playing call of duty etc.

Do you really want to be in a relationship with a gay guy who acts like a straight guy? How honest do you think your relationship will be if he can't be who he really is.

No, I would not date any guy ignorant enough to call himself "the woman in the relationship".

omg. im in the same boat as you!

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