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Stupid question. Need help. Please don't judge.?
Okay, so I've been with my boyfriend for almost 2 years now, but we've had a lot of bumps in the road. All during the first year of our relationship, we were on and off because I couldn't figure out what I wanted (long story). We've been doing a lot better lately and I've been really happy with him and I love him so much. But I am an EXTREMELY jealous girlfriend, only because I've never been in a relationship this long before. But during last summer, I broke up with him for about a month and during that time period, he made out with two other girls (shouldn't be a big deal since we weren't together). But being me, I don't like either of the girls and I absolutely hate one of them. I only hate her because a few months ago, he broke up with me for the first time because we were always arguing and he felt like he didn't love me anymore. I was devastated and I tried everything I could to get him back. We ended up having sex one day and then the next day I found out that the night after we had sex, he was texting/flirting with this girl. I felt completely betrayed. But after that all went down, he finally came to his senses and asked me to come back to him and we've been happy ever since. But me being over jealous and knowing his facebook login information, I blocked the girl I hate on his account about a month ago (don't judge). But then today, I randomly checked it again (I know i'm stupid) and she was unblocked. So guys, why would he have unblocked her? Oh, and he knows I absolutely HATE her.
okay. I didn't make things clear enough. my boyfriend is completely head over heels in love with me. more than I am with him. but he knows that I hate this girl. so I just wanted to know why he would have unblocked her
okay. I didn't make things clear enough. my boyfriend is completely head over heels in love with me. more than I am with him. but he knows that I hate this girl. so I just wanted to know why he would have unblocked her
7 Answers
- PatriciaLv 78 years agoFavorite Answer
During our lives, there are going to be people we dislike, but not everyone in our life circle is going to hate them too. As individuals, we need to make our own decisions about who we associate with.
I wasn't real fond of my boyfriend's ex girlfriend, but they were still friends. I just ignored it, and didn't focus on it.... i can't control who he talks to or emails. It's actually none of my business when it comes right down to it.
Another example is, i had a relative who i wasn't very fond of. I didn't like his behavior. However, my adult son did care for him. I didn't try to sway my son's affection or relationship with this person. It's not up to me to choose who he feels close with. It's his decision, and his alone
I do have advice - stay out of everyone's private online accounts. If you find someone's facebook or email open, log them out... don't snoop.
And as far as your boyfriend being "more in love" with you than you are with him, we can't measure love. So you can't know this is true. And if you don't care for him that much, then find someone else?
I also suggest you consider doing some online research for Coping with Jealousy and Self Esteem Self Help. If you are confident with YOU, then you won't have to experience drama and inner mayhem or be suspiscious of anyone else. You'll have the knowledge to make good judgements and you will recognize who is trustworthy and who is not. There will be no in-between.
- 8 years ago
Dump him, don't take this personally but he doesn't seem as in to you as you are to him. If you've been dating for 2 years and you take a break why is he making out with 2 girls 1 month after the break up. You're obviously more mature and looking for a real relationship and if he knows you don't like the girl but is still texting her enough to make you uncomfortable then there's a problem
- revsuzanneLv 78 years ago
Sounds like you are very young and have a lot of growing up to do.
Jealousy is FEAR on parade. Attempting to control him is again FEAR... manipulating his on-line accounts qualifies as abuse. The fact that you two had sex meant that you were trying to cement his committment to you... and it was likely just a nice romp for him. It is clear he is moving on. All the back and forth has worn him out. There are plenty of other fish in the sea. The other girls are just tangential.
I suggest you back off from all relationships and figure out who and what you are. Learn to be FRIENDS with the guys... with intent of finding that special romantic someone. A good system would be to get to know a guy thoroughly... at least one date per week for the first 3 months. This will help you to find out more about him and vice-versa. This will help you to not make any mistakes. In the meantime, you will gain confidence in yourself. Get to where you are so confident that you don't need anyone else to be happy.
- ourslerLv 44 years ago
omg im having the comparable concern- our dance business enterprise has at present were given some new vendors and get in touch with so its despite the actuality that transforming into (yet ive been with them when you consider that i became 3).. we've stable technique and choreography too yet each of the eisteddfods we've been to weve been crushed by making use of people that dont have very stable coreography and put on underclothes as their costumes and dont take many destructive aspects with their dances. many instances we were instructed that we may want to continually have come a minimum of 2d or third at the backside.... it purely annoys the craps outta me that this occurs too.. wish this makes you sense a teency bit greater beneficial :P
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- 8 years ago
He's probably not intrested in you Hun get him back by hooking up with a guy he despites that's if you choose to dump him which I recommend bcuz texting another chic after sex wow that's a major sign he doesn't know what he has until he loses it which u should attempt
- Yabran TarigaLv 58 years ago
You really didn't have to tell us all that... The answer is way too simple: he unblocked the girl just because he wasn't the person to block her!
He doesn't mess with your fb does he? Well, stay out of his business!
- 8 years ago
you're pathetic. get a life. quit playing games with others and yourself. either it's right or not. you want it or you don't.