Should I contact him first?

Well he either needs some space now or you were simply used by him so just wait a few weeks...

Well my dear let me put it this way are you crying for someone who don't love you??? Realize this that there is someone is crying for you too, because you don't love them. Dear please don't ever lower yourself you are and there is so many man who would love to be with you. That Saturday that you say you had fantastic time made love for the first time, then Sunday he did not want to meet you so dear what do you think he wants from you? he got everything he wanted and you got nothing but rejection please beg you walk away you guts is telling you what is truly suppose to do. Respect yourself never ever cry over anyone who takes from you the most important thing than he move away the day after common dear you know better you are smarter than that. Sorry when he told you F*** u:p' trust me he meant every word he said even if you say you always say that to each other that's not a nice man who truly respect you..Move on dear please forget him there are so many who wants you...Good luck best wishes you will truly find someone who truly love you for you and not for one night gets what he wants and moves on that's the worst thing a guy does,

i'd ignore him and give him a dose of his own medicine