Anyo

I love my boyfriend of 3 years but this Covid pandemic has played havoc on anything, we have a business together so we work together, I have 3 children from a previous marriage.  He thinks the whole world is against him and feels my children should be perfect the house should be perfect and life isn't like that, it really gets to him and he doesn't feel like he can talk to me and feels on verge of nervous breakdown saying he feels trapped.  I suggested he get his own place but he doesn't want to be away from me just everything else, mainly my kids I think! They are teenagers 17, 15 and 13 so can be tough but they a relatively good kids, they do chores, do school work and help out, yes they sometimes forget to take a glass out or accidently break a glass, but this is every day life to me.  His socks go missing and this drives him crazy! It is all so complex but I feel it is destroying us!

I knew nothing about accident only permited him to drive on provision he had insurance don't know what to do!

I love my boyfriend of 15months so much but something not quite right. He quite controlling an not who seems to be something doesn't seem genuine about him. I went to end it lots but he always manages to talk me around and because I love him my sane mind is saying end it as he not genuine but my heart saying maybe he is I'm so confused. I don't feel I make any right decisions my marriage of 9 years ended 3 years ago and everyone when they see us together say we still in love with each other and I do have feelings for him but we ended as I couldn't trust him, as he cheated. I had another serious relationship was totallyl in love with him he cheated but then said made mistake and wanted to marry me. I don't feel I can trust men or I choose really badly but have feelings for all 3 men? I love my boyfriend would never cheat on him but I feel if I can have feelings for these other two men how can he be the one? My mind feels so confused totally what do I do?

It is so easy for people to find someone new to date through dating sites people don't seem to want to get to know you or is it is just me?

I was madly in love with this chap was seeing him as fwb for a year but he hurt me as I told him loved him he ignored me for weeks so I moved on started seeing this other chap and we clicked straight away we have been seeing each around 2 or 3 weeks now! Now the other chap I really liked and wanted more then anything has come back and basically said wants a relationship with me! I have told him have met someone else who really like although of late he does appear to be hooked up on his ex or am I looking for faults, I really like him, we get on well and have a laugh but I don't feel he is with me some of the time but it all very soon. I was so hurt by other chap don't think I can trust him, we are friends but I am scared making wrong decision, I just don't know what to do! My dad said follow my heart but it would take me to chap who hurt me and this new relationship so early on to be honest I feel happy where I am at but what if I am given up something good?

I seperated from his dad when he was 3 yrs old and he has been fine, but just lately he really is unhappy to go to school he was always so happy he is literally dragged in kicking and screaming it not nice at all! His teachers have said he is not coping at all at the moment! He doesn't ever really want to go with his dad his dad but his dad insists they stay with him 3 days a week so CSA money is lower, there dad doesn't really want them it heartbreaking as the doesn't do anything with them they come back tired and shattered, where not sleeping properly, I have tried to say 1 night during school but he thinks I am being horrid to get back at him. I need advice as to what to do and how I cna make this easier on my son!

I have been seeing this bloke for about 8 months on and off! He says we just good friends and we went out saturday had fantastic time, made love for first time then sunday I said did he want to meet up and he ignored me so I few hours later in temper said 'well f*** u :p' we often joke saying that so didn't mean it in spiteful way and we have not spoken since, we normally talk every day but I don't want to text first I know this is really silly but he the one saying we only fwb etc... so I'm thinking prob best to walk away but I have fallen for this boy big time! What to do?

I have been good friends with him for last 8 months and last 2 months we became friends with benefits I developed feelings for him and love him, so I told him couldn't friends with benefits as I had feelings for him, he persuaded me to carry on but treats me badly he has distanced himself from me, ignores some texts and messages I just feel he reeled me in and I can walk away but really don't want to we became so close as friends I miss him dearly I tried no contact and lasted 3 days I was so miserable, he became my confidant after my marriage break down and has helped me loads but it making me miserable, the trouble is he has never told me how he actually feels, we still go out and do stuff together he explained before we started that he found it hard to express feelings as he has been very hurt in past I just feel so confused common sense telling me to tell him to do one, but not ready to just yet but fed up being miserable!

I was involved in car accident but need help as I'm blaming myself totally, my friend said not my fault! But I can't help feeling responsible as I was driving. No one was seriously hurt just cuts and bruises! I was travelling along a road a red van overtook and cut in tight causing me to break sharply I tooted him as I had kids in car and thought it was dangerous as I was only doing 30mph but he cut in that tight nearly hit him, he was in front and started to do hand signals out of window I ingnored as thought not going to react as we come off roundabout he slowed right down I thought he was going to cause a row so I went to overtake him the road was wide enough for 3 maybe 4 cars easily, as I got level with him he swerved into my car I breaked and he kept coming so I swirved and a car was coming the other way so we had head on, I was doing no more then 30 mph but other car was going quite fast so was quite bad accident. The van drove off! I keep asking myself why would someone want to do that? I would never drive dangerously and can't explain as happened so fast! The thing is at end of day I was across road in middle so I feel I will get done for dangerous driving, I haven't heard from police or anything as of yet Im just grateful everyone was okay! There is cctv so hopefully they will find this red van and driver before he kills someone!!

I have gone self employed for railway who are going to take tax out of wages I think 20% I have applied online for self assessment for national insurance payment. I'm going to keep all receipts and friend is doing the books what can I claim tax back on can it be electric for office space, materials, clothes, food, diesel? Any advice would be great. Going to get accountant but just some advice would be great!

I was married for 12 years and had 3 children with him, now I find myself single mum of 3 children don't really get to go out much as I am trying to be good mum to my kids, have been on match but just met a lot of physco's or people who want one night stands! How do I go about meeting someone nice is there any nice men left or will a be lonley old spinster?

I 'm so confused and lonely just don't know where to turn or what to do! I split up with my husband 3 weeks ago, and felt it was the right thing to do but feeling so lonely and lost of late, I don't want him back as he changed into a stranger and it hasn't been good, we have 3 wonderful children who live with me but see there dad regularly we have yet to agree details of visits etc... I don't know if it is because it Christmas time or what, but had a bit of disagreement with best friend as well and I suppose everything has just got the better of me! I want to stop feeling sorry for myself and get on with life, but it the first time kids have stayed overnight away from home as well! I think I have had the worse Christmas on record and just feel so abandoned!