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Have been seeing this guy few weeks now but torn!?

I was madly in love with this chap was seeing him as fwb for a year but he hurt me as I told him loved him he ignored me for weeks so I moved on started seeing this other chap and we clicked straight away we have been seeing each around 2 or 3 weeks now! Now the other chap I really liked and wanted more then anything has come back and basically said wants a relationship with me! I have told him have met someone else who really like although of late he does appear to be hooked up on his ex or am I looking for faults, I really like him, we get on well and have a laugh but I don't feel he is with me some of the time but it all very soon. I was so hurt by other chap don't think I can trust him, we are friends but I am scared making wrong decision, I just don't know what to do! My dad said follow my heart but it would take me to chap who hurt me and this new relationship so early on to be honest I feel happy where I am at but what if I am given up something good?

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  • 7 years ago

    OMG this was so me last year was in exactly the same boat it didn't work out with first chap for a reason as you couldn't trust him. I am still friends with the man who was fwb who I was madly in love with we are still good friends but I met someone after he ignorned me and had already been in relationship for few weeks and decided to give it a go and best decision I made we have our ups and down and I still wonder if made right choice :/ but too late now I am with the fella who hasn't hurt me in any way and loves me as much as I love him! As I said it hard and you will always wonder if... but it would of worked out and I'm a great believer in what will be will be if you meant to be together you will find a way if not don't have any regrets of if maybe when you haven't even given this new relationship a chance! Good luck let me know how it goes please :)

  • 8 years ago

    The best thing to do is not to bottle up your emotions

    Source(s): ~follow your heart~
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