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I'm so confused and lonley life no fun!?
I 'm so confused and lonely just don't know where to turn or what to do! I split up with my husband 3 weeks ago, and felt it was the right thing to do but feeling so lonely and lost of late, I don't want him back as he changed into a stranger and it hasn't been good, we have 3 wonderful children who live with me but see there dad regularly we have yet to agree details of visits etc... I don't know if it is because it Christmas time or what, but had a bit of disagreement with best friend as well and I suppose everything has just got the better of me! I want to stop feeling sorry for myself and get on with life, but it the first time kids have stayed overnight away from home as well! I think I have had the worse Christmas on record and just feel so abandoned!
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- KaiaLv 79 years agoFavorite Answer
It's the holidays and things are not what you expected them to be. It's pretty normal to feel like it's the worst Christmas ever.
You've allowed a series of events color your perception of the world and your life. You need to take a deep breath, and realize that you're feeling lonely and overwhelmed. It's okay. You'll feel like that for awhile, and then it'll go away...and come back...and go away.
Instead of focusing on what's wrong..focus on what's right. You're moving out of a marriage you no longer feel good about. You need to look at how you're going to improve yourself and your life. It's the perfect time to start working out, or pick up a new sport...just go do something you've never done before and enjoy it.
- Anonymous9 years ago
Well cheer up it is 3 weeks before Christmas and maybe thinking about the past ans happier times made u feel lonely it will past with each day try to interact with friends and family more so as not to think as much about your loneliness it will take time u can over come this
- Anonymous9 years ago
I used to feel that way bnut I had the BEST Christmas of my life! My ex bf that I dated VERY briefly sent a gift for me in the mail and it was totally unexpected AND my favorite perfume. Doesn't mean qwe are fgetting back together but he knows about how Christmas has always suicked for me and he wanted this year to be different...and it was. :)
- Anonymous9 years ago
Normal feelings you should see about seeing a therapist to help you sort all the felling you are having out.
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- Anonymous9 years ago
its normal to second guess your decisions dear. But... Whats more important. Your kids... Or your X? I took years of abuse from mine..(yes. It does happen to guys) mental and phisical abuse. And when i decided to not take her crapo any more filed for divorce. She has perminant restraining order, and has to pay child support to me.. Dont be a statistic...
Source(s): personal experience - Anonymous9 years ago
confused what is going on? your husband I think just got mad, he changed to make you upset, he is steal he, he just got mad at everything, I change from Doc Jackal to Mr Hide some times, Mom says I don't know you! I say what? oh, wow. your beautiful girl we all love you, and church is good.
