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Wanting to know my dad?
Is this weird? Do I need to just calm down and stop being a creep?
I'm seventeen years old. But have never met my real dad. Because he cheated on my mom when she was pregnant with me. And so she met a new man who has raised me and was there for my mom throughout her pregnancy. Well anyways. I want to know my real dad so bad. I have sent his whole family friends requests on Facebook and have messaged them my number. But they just ignore me. So I made a fake Facebook using a random name, and they accepted it. And I've just been snooping on them every since. But I feel like a creep. Should I just stop and move on and maybe one day they will want to be apart of my life?
I wasn't even really that curious about him until my dad who raised me and my mom separated when I was 13. Now that dad who raised me has nothing to do with me because his new wife knows I'm not his biological daughter. So it's not like I have a father figure anymore. I'm just curious of where I came from. That's all,
Oh and I never said I wanned my biological father and mother to get back together? I would just like to be apart of their lives. It's hard knowing I have a sister I've never met. And that they live walking distance from me and I've never seen or talked to them in seventeen years.
3 Answers
- 8 years agoFavorite Answer
You're living happily, what's bothering u? trying something like this would be a waste of time and would put u in trouble, i see u should quit doing this and look to what u have right now, u have a Father in law, but is he Bad? no, so just accept your destiny, and don't try to mess up your life, because if your parents separated 17 years ago, what would make ''em return to each other again after this long period? not because of u i think, just accept the destiny my dear
- Anonymous8 years ago
My oldest is in the exact situation as u she is just a bit younger. I will be more blunt with u than I can be with her I'm sorry. If they wanted to know you they would make an effort especially since u made the first move. Don't waste your time on these people. Be open if they one day seek u out if u wish but my opinion is u made an effort they had a chance. Now move on. Its hard and unfair to you but they are not worth knowing in my opinion if they don't want to know u. I'm sorry.
- 8 years ago
If he doesn't even want to meet you than he clearly doesn't want you in his life. Even if he does want to be in your life one day he will just run when things get tough again. Is this the kind of person you want to call your dad? You really are getting your hopes up that he's a person worth meeting, but chances are you aren't going to like what you find. Then you're going to wish you didn't know him so you could still idealize him in your head.
