My boyfriend hasn't invited me to his birthday?!?

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It's my boyfriends birthday in a couple of weeks and he's organised a weekend away with a few of his guy mates. I am doing something else with him a couple of days later and that was all fine. Until yesterday I found out that two of his girl friends are going, including the person he lost his virginity to! They will be sleeping at a friends uni house as well where there will be girls. I asked why I wasn't invited and he said I cause problems when I'm drunk. I'm not going to lie and I have started a couple of arguments on nights out but I certainly wouldn't do this on his 21st birthday! Am I right to be annoyed that he will be spending 2 nights with other girls or shall I just let him get on with it? I've always invited him to all of my birthdays where it's just been my friends!

Anonymous · Accepted Answer

Well, I personally would be very upset, but if you have problems drinking, then you really shouldn't be drinking to that level of excess. Your boyfriend should be more considerate of your feelings though. You should talk to him again and tell him how you're feeling. ESPECIALLY about the girls.

Anonymous · Answer

well.. looks like since he feels you shouldn't come and that he can't be faithful or trusting to you...  time to move on.


this is not going to change.. . imagine if you two were married and he went to stag parties...   strip clubs... rendezvous and such and you had to play the guessing game and finally find out on your own?


how miserable do you want to be?

no,   i know what's going on and it's going to turn out badly... doe he already apologize alot?

humm,  ookay.


you need to do better than this.

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My boyfriend hasn't invited me to his birthday?!?

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