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Not invited to boyfriends 21st?!?!?
It's my boyfriends birthday in a couple of weeks and he's organised a weekend away with a few of his guy mates. I am doing something else with him a couple of days later and that was all fine. Until yesterday I found out that two of his girl friends are going, including the person he lost his virginity to! They will be sleeping at a friends uni house as well where there will be girls. I asked why I wasn't invited and he said I cause problems when I'm drunk. I'm not going to lie and I have started a couple of arguments on nights out but I certainly wouldn't do this on his 21st birthday! Am I right to be annoyed that he will be spending 2 nights with other girls or shall I just let him get on with it? I've always invited him to all of my birthdays where it's just been my friends!
10 Answers
- Anonymous8 years ago
Ok if he lives you then you shouldnt have been a problem for him.You are the best for him in every occassion but looks like you are not.If he have thought you cause problems while drink than he could just respect you and do his B-day with only guys.It looks like he doesnt know how to respect a girl he loves.Talk to him and sort out what is going on.If he thinks you cause problems and the other girls dont then he is nit good enough for you.
- Anonymous8 years ago
Even tho you say you'll keep it cool. All you need is another shot of booze that would end up doing the talking for you. sounds lIke your doubtIng trust as well. Idk but My 21st bday all I did was buy a fifth of vodka and chill with my lady at home. Maybe just let enjoy his week. Sucks to be left out tho. But there was a reason for it. Kinda how karma works from your past nights.
- alan PLv 78 years ago
Of course you are right to be annoyed. Even if you have embarrassed him in the past he should be ready to forgive you if he wants to be with you. If he doesn't want to be seen out with you and only wants you for private get togethers then you really need to think about whether you want to carry on with him.
- tsistinasLv 44 years ago
you responded your guy or woman question. "hes having a weekend away with some friends" properly no offence, yet maximum boyfriends desire to have their friends and girlfriends seperate, theres no longer something incorrect with it, the worst element you may desire to do is initiate a controversy with him because of this, might you many times desire him to bear in mind that his twenty first advance into ruined considering you argued with him?
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- Anonymous8 years ago
What is wrong with you? Why are you letting this guy treat you like this? YOU ARE HIS GIRLFRIEND! The most important person to him.. Yet you are not invited to his BIRTHDAY? Are you kidding me? Dump his ***.
- 8 years ago
Those are ALL red flags my dear :/ & I'm not sure how bad your prior fights were while intoxicated... I guess that MIGHT have something to do with it but it still seems a little sketchy to me!
- 8 years ago
He should not be other random girls!
Honestly,you need to be there if there is other girls,so just tell him you wont drink that night.Is that so hard?
- SophieLv 58 years ago
Ouch, sounds like you're the problem here. If your drinking really is this embarrassing you really need to address this.
- 8 years ago
Listen, Elle, I don't think you should consider him your boyfriend anymore...
Wake up, girl!
