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The pastor of our church is making sexual passes at me?

I'm kinda shocked...I've attended this church since I was a infant...my pastor makes sexual passes at me, he looks at me in the wrong way always staring at me , when he gives me hugs he puts his hands around.my waist. He was suppose to be my mentor...bc my family felt that I was going through a depressing stage...so I would come to his office for meetings...and he would ask me to wear tighter clothes, to call him when no one was around, tell me to text him and send pictures of myself...the list goes on and on...I told my cousin she thought I was lying and told me he was trying to be a father to me..and Mom don't.believe me at all she said he's.not like that bc he has a wife..what to do?

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  • 8 years ago
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    Since no one has given a specific solution to this problem, I guess I'll step up to the plate. If he's asking you to send pictures of yourself, then that's strike number three right there. Some people you meet aren't who they say they are. And him telling you to wear tighter clothes? Then that should tell you that he isn't the exact religious man. Get evidence of these claims, such as record him telling you these things, and tell the authorities or other members of the church.

  • This is exactly why Jehovah God told us to get out of false religion. Churches are false religion and pratice declaring false teachings to their members. They do not follow the Bible in the correct manner, and what is worst of all is that they go against what the Bible teaches. Concerning this question of yours, this case is very true. True Christians avoid involvement with “Babylon the Great,” the world empire of false religion and the most bloodguilty of all. Abandoning false religion includes hating the evil practices that false religion condones or openly advocates, such things as immorality, political meddling, and the greedy pursuit of wealth. Immorality comes to mind when I read your description. I am sorry for what you're going through. I am actually not surprised though in the least that the pastor would do such things. I would advise you to stay away from the church for your own safety.

  • 8 years ago

    It is not surprising. I was a pastor and we have a lot of power in a congregation. If the church is a denomination like United Methodist etc, the pastor has a boss. Tell the boss. Or you could tell his wife. Maybe get a little recorder and record the things he says. Tell other leaders in the church. If yoiu are a minor tell the cops.

  • Karl
    Lv 7
    8 years ago

    Evil attacks us all and the church leaders most of all. For when a church leader fails non believers see it and judge us all and not just him for being human and failing.

    Like priests: They fall too and all judge the church and not just the man who failed like we all fail at some point.

    bless you.

    Pray to Jesus and keep praying and it will be fine. You could have the last person on earth that you would make love to and evil will try to get you to act on feelings of having sex with them. Normally this is not an option but evil is stronger than most realize and convinces many to do such things.

    So when we realize evil is doing it we forgive them and pray that the evil will stop attacking him and praying can do all that.

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  • 8 years ago

    This sounds like a troll question. Good trolling, but I still smell a troll. If it's not, the solution is simple: start going to a new church, and if you need to, file sexual harassment charges against the pastor. There are bad apples in all denominations.

  • Anonymous
    8 years ago

    Avoid him and keep him away.

    U should not encourage him to do such things. Instead defend yourself.

    Pastor is not a God, but a human being.

    What can't u kick on his butts instead of allowing to touch your waist?

    U cannot clap with single hand. First correct yourself and then blame him.

  • ?
    Lv 5
    8 years ago

    Call the Police, to have someone in that position of power, looking a children is no good for anyone. Tell the police, not your parents, not your friends, an not a teacher, call the police directly.

  • 8 years ago

    See if he'll send you something dirty, show it to your parents, call the number and guess who'll answer?!

    That or just stay the **** away from him. Don't listen to what he says, just ignore him completely. Still be polite, just avoid hugging and start talking to some other guys in church.

  • 8 years ago

    stay away and threaten to call the police. And since your parents don't believe you, maybe a teacher will or another family member, or the pastors wife...

    Source(s): me
  • 8 years ago

    Pray about it. Attend *another* church.

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