how to lower or drop child support?

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I have a six year old that I pay $500 a month on in child support. When it was set I was ok with it because I was getting him every other week however for the last year and a half I've had him three to four days a week every week and every holiday. His mother also moved 70 miles away and I drive 280 miles a day to get him to and from school. I agree completely with supporting ones child but it should be a mutual effort not just an automatic paycheck because I support him as much if not more then his mother and spend an insane amount on travel costs on top of all the things I also have to provide for him as a father. Aside from school costs I don't see a need to continue to supplement her income. Any help would be appreciated

Anonymous · Answer

If you have children you take care of them. $500 is nothing compared to how much it costs to take care of children. Doctors visits, food, shelter, extracurricular activities, and school.... Trust me $500 doesn't go very far. Just because you don't get to see your child as much that doesn't change the fact that your child needs shelter, food, doctors visits, school , and extracurricular activities. You do not support your child more and shame on you for even suggesting that! As I said before $500 bucks doesn't go very far when taking care of a child, and supporting a child isn't just paying for them... Being present in their life, loving and supporting them, teaching them right from wrong... This is a huge part of taking care of children. If you payed less child support it would hurt your child much more then it would hurt your ex. Your gild cannot move closer to you and it's up to you to move closer to your child. You're not being a good father! Step up and stop wining!

Ed · Answer

I know everyone looks at the guys as the bad ones in these scenarios, but women can just be as devilish. She doesnt need more than the $500 you give her. Keep EVERY SINGLE receipt  that shows you took care of your boy. Then take her *** to court and get a good lawyer. It might look expensive now, but trust me if you let her, she will drain you DRY. I know you love your kid and your trying your best, it shows. And kudos to you for being a good dad.!

John J. S · Answer

Coiurt ordered support can only be modified by the court.  take your best shot, but don't hold your breath.

Anonymous · Answer

only a judge can change the ordered amount - you need to go back to court and explain the new circumstances

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