How Do I Keep A Good Long Marriage?

Congratulations on your marriage! here is the secret to celebrating you 40 th wedding anniversary!

The number one cause of fights is when the husband doesn't think he is a leader of the household. Make sure he is a leader and you will have a very happy marriage.Make sure he never feels like your follower. Always ask him for advice and follow it. Make sure he makes decisions. this way he will always be attracted to you and you will be so happy. when men feel their women are in charge of the household and them they turn to porn or just lose interest in the wife.The men get frustrated very easily. Make sure he knows you think of him as a leader. The marriages that last the husbands are seen as leaders not as children or followers. The added bonus if the man is a leader in the household he will keep his parents and friends from interfering in your life and causing trouble.If he is not in charge the mother in laws will run wild causing all kinds of problems.

As long as your husband is a leader of the household he will run the house and you not from it.

Best of Luck!!!

Remember to always be polite to each other, treat one another as you would a friend - say please and thank you. Respect each other and don't talk about personal issues to other people. Give each other space and realize that we all have bad days and can be tired. Never bring up old issues when you argue. Try not to use "always" and "never" as in: you never take out the trash unless I tell you to.

Don't fight - just talk calmly and try to compromise.

Pray for your marriages' survival and sustenance.

Stop being a nag.

Don't be too complacent. Keep urself presentable/fit.

Be sure your husband will not cheat on you.

Leave if ASAP if he does. Once a cheater, always a cheater.

If you're going to argue, do it naked. Makes for a much more enjoyable experience.

communication and trust...

are by far the 2 biggest factors

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