Great boyfriend, but not sure what to do?

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I'm 15, and my first boyfriend and I have been dating for 2 months now. He's super sweet and nice, there's nothing wrong with him. He's great. But I don't really have that spark anymore, he just feels like a really good friend (and I never want to loose him as a friend). I'm sort of scared that there'll be pressure for us to act more bf/gf-y (kissing and stuff), which we haven't done yet and I've never done, and I'm really not sure whether I'm ready or not. Half of me is curious and wants to try something new, and the other still thinks it's disgusting. I keep asking myself if we should break up, maybe I'm just not ready for a serious boyfriend yet. But he's so nice and sweet, and I really don't want to hurt his feelings. We have mostly the same friends and they think we're adorable, and I don't want to ruin the group by breaking up either :/ What do you guys think?

Anonymous · Answer

i think it's great that you have a strong friendship in your relationship. That is really important. If you break up with him, you may still be friends but your friendship will never be the same I can promise you that. Maybe your just nervous about kissing and beyond? Don't be. First of al, it's not as big of a deal as people make it seem usually. Second, if your not ready just tell him, and he will understand if he's mature.

s_m_o_r_b · Answer

If you care about him, remember that you're not doing him any favors by letting him think there's something there, if there isn't.
Talk to him. Tell him what's on your mind. It may not all go smoothly, but it can't be any worse than not being honest with him -- and yourself.
Good luck.

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Great boyfriend, but not sure what to do?

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