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Should I ask her out on a date? Help please!?
Hi,
I have been on this dating site for a few months and whilst I messaged girls, no one got back to me. Anyway one day I got a message out of the blue. We've been talking a little bit but I feel the conversation never really gets to the point where I can ask her out.
I'm quite a quiet person, and I think she is quite shy too. We have a few things in common but our lifestyles are very different. She is so shy I feel that she knows more about me than I know about her. When I do ask her something like what occupation she has she seems very vague, yet I've told her where I work and stuff. The same goes with interests and hobbies.
I do get a sense she seems quite a nice person to talk to but I am half afraid of asking her out. Don't laugh but if I do it'd be my first official date I've ever had and let's just say I'm well past teenage years. We haven't talked in about 3 or 4 days now, should I consider asking her out or moving on?
5 Answers
- 8 years agoFavorite Answer
hey man. I am 24 years old, I have some some horrible experiences online when i was 18/19 years old. if she lives close by, ask to MEET her physically for a date. If she lives too far or says that she cannot meet... I would walk away if i were you. And also do a video chat just to make sure that sh is real. good luck man.
Source(s): me - Anonymous8 years ago
Ask her out and see what happens! (as long as you're shes not a fake account)
Take her somewhere nice ut if it doesnt work out for whatever reason, maybe your lifestyles are too different, at least you tried and you dont have to spend the rest of your life wondering what it would be like.
- 8 years ago
I think that you should ask her for her number and call her. Take it slow because the person that you're talking to could be somebody else. I mean have you seen the television show "Catfish" its about online dating. Don't move on yet, give yourself a chance .
- 8 years ago
Man, if you're going to ask her out than do it soon and that way, you find out if it will work out or not. At the same time if it doesn't work out or you decide not to ask her out then I think, it would be best for you to work on your shyness and go to talk to a girl in person.
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- 8 years ago
hi from what you have said she does seem shy i would talk to her even more maybe send pictures to each other just about what ur doing and stuff like that give it some more time and just make the offer whats the worst that could happen ?
