Really don't know what to do?

If you are serious scared for the baby's sake, then you should leave this man, this baby deserves so much better than him, get the police involved as controlling and obsessive behaviour can go on his record and it will help you with social services once the baby is born, Only you can make these changes...There are plenty of mother and baby support shelters around, get the police to help you.

Ignore him? What do you mean you're considering not having it? You mean get an abortion? At 16 weeks thats cruel. The baby has a heartbeat, he hears, he can move, you'd start to feel movement any time now. You'd find out the sex in two weeks. You want to have an abortion because of some guy? Are you serious. Most states don't even do abortions after the first trimester so you're out of luck. An abortion at 16 weeks you would have to deliver the baby. There's no other way to get it out. You would go through labor. Contract, dialate, and push out a dead baby. How cold of a person are you that you'd even consider that? Pathetic. Ignore the guy, its simple. You don't have to be with him just because he's the father. He can't control you if you don't let him. The fact you wanted to kill your baby, at this stage, because of some guy is completely pathetic. You have about 5 more months to grow up, and learn to be a mother. I can't believe anyone would want to abort a baby at this stage, and because of a guy?! Learn how to be a mother and fast, because right now you are a horrible one.

Hunni I know you are scared and you have every right to be.But be brave there are many people out there that would be willing to help you and thats the truth. Its natural to feel alone but know that you are not. But everyone is right the first thing you need to do is get away from this clown and get the police involved. ,may not be involved with a church but the church has excellent resources for women like you. They will help you 1. get a place to stay may be the best but for you and your baby will be safe. 2. If you arent ready to be a mom they will help you with adoption. there are so many wonderful couples out there that woul love a little one of their own :). Please dont have an abortion I had my part in one 12yrs ago and it still breaks my heart, I always feel guilty scared and ashamed all the time. Dont you want that give that little one a chance to see the sky eat a cookie and have a birthday party. OK? Lots of love good luck.

Get away from him. Thats not good for you or the baby. And dont consider not having the baby, there is always people out there that cant have a baby and want one and there are a lot of people/programs out there to help single mothers. Good luck.