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Why am I so antisocial?

Why is it that I am? I don't have any friends, and when I did, we were totally different, we never could agree on a certain place to hangout at. All my so called friends either smoke weed, go clubbing, always want me to give them rides, don;t work, study too much, envy me, are boring, only think about sex, never take my jokes, we are very different and it;s a bummer...I wish it wouldn't be that way but it is. I just dedicate my time working full time, I love my professional job, I also spend my time blogging and I love to read the news, I am very religious but not infront of my friends, I hardly play and vid. games, I have money thanks to my success, and I thank God. But mostly my so called friends envy me because of such, I can say I dress nice, I just never ever go out, I got cars, and for some odd reason, I feel very good when I am alone, but sometimes like when I see people post on Facebook that they want to hangout or that they are hanging out a certain place it makes me want to do something of the such, but I just tend to not do so...And everything there is to do involves money, and I take care of my money, I am stingy at times, but dont mind a little spending here and there. Do I need help? How can I not feel so alone? Is it worth having friends?

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  • 8 years ago
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    It's good to be alone once in a while, but you also should have that one true friend. And Its not that you are an antisocial person, it's because you choose to

    Be. You must go out enjoy, live though this beautiful world we all live in together. Everyone in life, no matter if they are evil, good, very wealthy. We all end up

    In the same place. You mush push yourself to find friends, because there is always that one true friend out there, that does care. It's very worth it to have friends because you know in times of trouble you have one more person to look to for help.

  • 8 years ago

    Seriously dude, you need to loosen up and have SOME fun. At least a little teensy bit of fun won't hurt. Seems like you find some type of issue with everyone. You nitpick. Either this or that is wrong with them. I think you need to let go of all that sh!t. Stop looking at the cons of a person. Look at the positive sides that you like about them. THEN, call them up and ask them to hang out. YOU plan it. Do something that you would enjoy. It is okay to have friends who are different. After all, we are ALL different. No 2 people are the same. Accept it, and now go interact with people.

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