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I am talking to this girl that I had classes with in college. I have been talking to her for a year, not constantly just every now and then, I started getting a bit close to her by the end of this semester of college and we seemed to like talking with one another. I started hinting to her that I liked her and I finally gave up and told her that I did. She seemed thrilled a bit but sadly told me she has a bf who she has been with for 4 years now... I tried to get her attention lots by being the sweet kind guy I am, and she would seem to be all happy about it, but now that I am texting with her she doesnt seem to reply much to me and only uses short words, like yup, yes sir, etc.. which I am tired of.. I ask if I can call her but she always seems busy. I invite her out, ask her when she is available to go out, but refuses my offer even when I tell her to go out as friends... She seems to like the attention I am giving her but doesnt want to show it much? I dont know what to do.. She doesnt have anything about her bf on facebook or instagram, but she mentions little things about him to me nothing serious but yea. They tell me to not give up and reach the unreachable but I dunno sometimes I desperately feel like giving up...

My girlfriend and I have been together for 2 1/2 months now and we just started having oral sex 2-3weeks ago. It's been the best experience ever considering we are both Virgins. We don't want to have sex just keep on doing oral. She's my first girlfriend, and I'm her first, we are both adults by the way, and we are both very shy about sex. I want to know how girls feel about when a guy touches them and kisses the girls neck, it turns my girlfriend on when I kiss her neck and ears but that doesn't mean I want to take her to bed for some oral. I touch on her body all the time and I get really horny but don't want to tell her directly that I want to have oral with her. How do girls feel about this? Is it okay if I tell her that I want to have oral with her? And I also want to know if girls get horny after coming out for their period? Since she comes out of hers tomorrow. She has been very cranky but sort of intimate the past days.

I really like this girl I met on facebook, we have same similarities, get along just fine in conversations. I havent seen her in person sadly, but I am hoping on getting to met her this weekend. Thing is, I already told her that I liked her...her response was that she isn't ready to have a Boyfriend, I told her that I understood and that I wasn't asking her to be my girlfriend, just that I liked her. She asked what I liked about her, and I told her, she said I was sweet and she gave me her #. We have conversation daily, and we never get bored of it. She told me before, that she wasn't ready to have a Bf and asked if I had a gf or if I ever had one. I never really had a gf, I told her that. She's 17 and I am 20, she turns 18 in a month or so, could she be waiting to turn 18 to have a bf? to feel more ready? I am willing to wait for her, when she feels ready, I am not going to pressure nor force her, whether or not she ends up liking me as a bf. Her parents are strict on her, not letting her go out much unless it's with her girl friends. So it good to let her know that I like her? Is she waiting to turn 18? Can I text her everyday? How can I take her out on a date without letting her parents get in the way or her making excuses? Thanks guys, really

i have trouble talking to girls. When I do end up talking to one she ignores me. Like we do start a good convo but somehow the girl likes to take her precious time in replying back or not reply back at all. I only talk to them through facebook, i dont even text them nor talk to them in real person. How am I going to text them if I can't even get that far into asking for their number! the worst part is that they do see the message I send (because it automatically shows the check mark on face book when someone does see a message) and they are connected or they post stuff on facebook and just ignore the hell out of me! are all girls like this? I just want to talk, make a friend, hangout. Im not a creep, I am just a 20 year old friendly guy trying to make friends to not feel so lonely...I dont just send messages to random girls either, I start messaging girls that like my status or comment on my stuff.

I just want to talk to girls on Facebook, but I end up getting ignored :\ I always wonder why but I have become so used to it that I am losing hope in ever having a friend or a girlfriend at that. I don't want to bug them anymore after they don't reply to my messages or comments and I will just ignore them for days and just "like" their status updates. Why do girls do that? (Ignore me) i am very friendly and I don't use profanity, nothing bad ever posted from my part on my Facebook, I am Christian so I usually post bible verses or prayers, I post other stuff of my personal interest but nothing profane or obscene. Maybe that's what girls like in guys is what I wonder, they like guys that post nasty and stupid junk on Facebook. I don't go out I just spend time working 8 hours 5 days a week, I have weekends free but just stay in or go out to run errands. I get lonely I have no friends, they all abandoned me. I just want to make a female friend through Facebook and see how it goes, I have social anxiety, very shy, but when you get to know me I am the most out going and fantastic person :D but no one knows about that since I have no one. What can I do? Is there something I am missing? Something wrong I am doing?

So I was trying to charge my phone up fast and I saw something on Facebook saying that if you put it in the Microwave for a few seconds that it would fully charge. So I did such and suddenly I saw electricity and a loud crackling sound inside the micro. Well I got frightened and stopped the darn thing and well my phone was messed up. I had no charged phone, no phone at all! So like does this trick only happen to certain types of phones? Mine was an iphone, maybe that's why I'm thinking...

I don't want to sound racist or nothing against religion, but is it bad that I look so darn good wearing a turban? Like I look really good wearing one and so masculine, it makes me want to wear one in public, but I am not of Islamic religion or anything of that sort. I don't have anything against middle Eastern people considering that several of my close friends are Middle Eastern. I feel powerful wearing a turban, I don;t wear one in front of people though of course not

I had a dream about me catching Legendary Pokemon.ex. Suicune Celebi. I was with one of my best friends who I haven't seen or talked to for over a year now. He liked Pokemon as much as myself. I wonder if this dream is a sign or something between our friendship? I'd like to know and find out, thanks.

So i recently had a dream about my 8 month old nephew. I do not really recall all the dream but the little I remember was that he could talk to me, and that I was the only one in the fam that understood and could hear him. Kind of like the Rugrats cartoons. No one believed me that he could speak (he still doesnt speak) and they just all thought I was craze. So what could this dream have meant? Thanks

Okay well I got pulled over recently by no apparent means, I was going 60 on the freeway (which is the speed limit) and there was a cop car besides me along the way, not following me but just stayed besides me for about 5 minutes. I could sense that he was going to pull me over, in which he did. So I asked him 3 times on why he pulled me over because he kept on changing the conversation, and he came up with 2 excuses, my cars headlight was out (total Bs) and I was stepping on the line, psssh don't we all!?.. So he took me out my car, pulled me into his, asked me questions, and then he asked me for insurance like 20 minutes after, so I told him that it was inside my car, so he went to get it and when he came back he did some computer stuff, 10 minutes later he asks me that if I smoked weed, which I dont, I told him no, and he said if anybody I know did, I said no. So he asked me why was there Marijuana stems inside my car, I told him I had no idea, because nobody I know smokes, let alone myself. So he was totally Bullstiin, I got pissed, he then said that he would show me what he was talking about. Well at the end when he let me go, he never showed me the Marijuana stems, and I would like to know if I could sue him for saying $h!t like that, false accusations or something, because well first of all he pulled me over for basically nothing, my car is suspicious because it's a sports car, maybe that's why he did it.. and well he said I found something in my car that was totally not true, not even worth mentioning. I want to sue his *** but I want to know how because it has been bothering me ever since, and I cannot get it out of my head, and I have been having dreams about such incident, I have never tried Marijuana, alcohol, nor cigs. I am clean. Thank you.

I am looking to make some money not just by working but by home. And by home I mean that I am trying to earn money with my baking skills. I like to bake sweets, but I am mostly starting, the few people that have tried my food say it's very good, some have said that I should do business with my cooking and baking. I can also cook several foods. I am into baking and cooking, I am most probable an intermediate with it. I don't take any classes nor did I get into culinary in my school. I graduated high school that's all and I have been working in jobs that do not pay me to satisfy me so I want to earn some money by well basically being my own boss. I want to fulfill my dream I just need some help on how to start and when? And how can I manage to do so by myself? Do I need to hire people? I want to take it step by step, little by little. I just hope my skills are put to the test and manage to be something of a grand thing. Thanks

So I am very into what I dream and all (If I can remember them) and just last night I had a dream about children. I was helping the poor kids out because they were alone and in need of desperate help. They were about 5 of them if I can recall and I was just trying to get them to a safe place. I really cannot recall what all was happening but at the end of my dream there was a boy, about 5 years of age, he was very smart and he looked up to me, like I was his hero. He couldn't speak very well but the little he could he tried to communicate with me. He told me to keep in touch with him because I was his friend and he tried giving me his phone # to his house but he didn't know it. I was in a hurry to leave because the cops could have taken me away, so I just told the kid, "Do not worry friend, I will always remember you and we will see each other some day, take care, bye"

It felt so real, I just wish I would know what it all meant..

So there is this guy that has been working at the same job as I and I try and do get along with him but he is a major slacker! He started just 1 week after I was already working where we are at. I mean he does things when he is told to, but he is still a rookie as I, btw he's white, I am not, the manager is white, and has known the guy for several years now, and the manager is just getting to get to know me. Well this slacker is preferred by the manager. He can get away with almost anything, things that would have gotten me fired. Since at my job we don't clock in just mark our own hours, he marks his all wrong and gives himself more hours than what he really made, it's pathetic, he takes about at least in total just 2 hours of break time each and everyday! and only marks down for the usual halfhour! He goes to the store at least 2 times a day, goes to the porta pottie (Since that is what the work field provides) 2 times a day, smokes 3 times a day, talks on phone, all while working, and plus his Long freaking break time! It's stupid and I do not like him doing that BS. Several co workers have already complained and big boss has considered firing him twice already, but he just gives him chances because of his friend our manager. I know that if I were to do the things he does at work everyday, My butt would be FIRED! So what can I do about such situation? Do I just forget it and mind my own business, not care about what others do? But then again, he is an employee, and is doing Wrong! I want him to be fired already, considering that work has gotten a bit slow lately, and the big boss might give some employees rest time, I want to keep the job, but not with that slacker roaming about. Thank you guys.

I respect everyone's likes and dislikes but this whole "New Pope" thing is getting annoying, he is just like any one of us human beings. He is not greater nor lesser than any one of us either. Why do people praise the man? Why is it that now after he has become the new Pope, the media starts recognizing all the good deeds he has done? I respect him but it's ridiculous how the media is all up on him now as if he should not have gotten recognition for his deeds before he became Pope.

I mean racism is almost anywhere you turn. From Tv ads to the color of certain foods. Is it society that is the problem? Our generation?

I have a lady friend that I have known for a year now. She lives in another state we are not near each other whatsoever. We just communicate by texting, emailing, or Facebook. We are very similar like, except that she is 9 years older than me. We have same likes, and dislikes. She is very insecure and just like me, has problems with dating and being in a relationship, a serious one, just like the one I want. I am a very good friend of hers and we get along all so well. She is crazy at times, but so am I, we are very open minded with each other, and I like that. At times during our conversations, she tends to speak about her wanting to have sex, and she takes birth control pills. I have told her that I am still a virgin and that I would enjoy to experience sex, but she never mentions nor do I having sex with each other. And considering that she lives thousands of miles away I know that I have no chance with her, I would like to meet her but just to know her in person, she is a very great friend, I can say, I love her, she tells me she loves me to in the friendzoned way though. I guess she just sees a very good friend in me, and she can trust me, but at times she seems like she wants to tell me something, and she gives me advice about dating and what girls I should listen to and talk to.But I don't know if it is normal for friends like this to talk about sex and stuff if they are just friends?

So I have French classes and my teacher is very good at teaching the class French. She is young, about 27 I haven't asked her, and I won't be saying any names, but she tends to be very hot at times. Where I live, it is very cold the temperature, and our school likes to keep its students warm so it kicks up the central heater. We tend to get stuffy at times considering we take our big coats and my teacher takes her fur coats as well, thing is that's not the only thing she takes off. After removing her coat she says,"Damn, I am still hot." and starts to undue her blouse or whatever top piece she is wearing. and after that she suddenly starts to take her shoes or boats off. and takes of her pants. and underneath are booty shorts. I think something is wrong with my teacher, maybe she gets hot flashes? I don't know... She could go see a Dr. or something if she feels so darn hot or just tell the school to keep the heat at a decent level. I don't want her to be feeling hot and not teach us enough because she spends time undressing to feel more comfortable.

It's just plain stupid, that darn groundhog is always wrong, where I am living right now, it's cold a'f! I thought that that damn guinea pig predicted early spring, looks more like extended winter to me! Is this what America has come to? Trusting a marmot for weather predictions? Wake up America, wake up from your slumber.

It's not that I am against it nor am I with it, I am just wanting to know how and why this idea came to be. And how bad is the idea of having more than 1 wife. I am not married and am not really sure if I will consider marriage, but even so, you can't love more than 1 person now can you?

Why is it that I am? I don't have any friends, and when I did, we were totally different, we never could agree on a certain place to hangout at. All my so called friends either smoke weed, go clubbing, always want me to give them rides, don;t work, study too much, envy me, are boring, only think about sex, never take my jokes, we are very different and it;s a bummer...I wish it wouldn't be that way but it is. I just dedicate my time working full time, I love my professional job, I also spend my time blogging and I love to read the news, I am very religious but not infront of my friends, I hardly play and vid. games, I have money thanks to my success, and I thank God. But mostly my so called friends envy me because of such, I can say I dress nice, I just never ever go out, I got cars, and for some odd reason, I feel very good when I am alone, but sometimes like when I see people post on Facebook that they want to hangout or that they are hanging out a certain place it makes me want to do something of the such, but I just tend to not do so...And everything there is to do involves money, and I take care of my money, I am stingy at times, but dont mind a little spending here and there. Do I need help? How can I not feel so alone? Is it worth having friends?