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Relationship advice help please!?

I'm 18 y/o and haven't had a girlfriend before.. partly because I thought that having a girlfriend was going to be a burden.. but recently I've had a change of mind.. and I met this girl at some event and we hit it off pretty well... but I'm afraid to ask her out and since I've never had any romantic relationships before, I have no idea what being a boyfriend means..

Any advice for me? (I'll answer your questions too!)

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  • 8 years ago
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    So, what you really need to do is spend some more time with her. Eat lunch with her, talk to her before or after school and etc... You want her to know that you like her with out using words. Have a party and invite her. Chat with her almost all the time. Gifts aren't the way into a girls heart unless it meaningful. For example, when she was a child did she not ever get something that she really wanted? Not like a pony or a dog, but like a doll. It's not like she will ever use it, it's the thought that counts. Don't buy her chocolates or flowers. If a guy ever gave me those things I wouldn't realize that he really cared for me. And don't forget, just be yourself!

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  • 8 years ago

    Keep close contact to her - keep being charming and nice.

    It really is all about asking her. Simple as that.

    She will either say yes or she will say no. Either way you will be in a better position than you are now. You will either be dating or know she isn't interested and be ready to move on.

  • 8 years ago

    U should go for it bro..being a boyfriend means to b there for her and b the shoulder she cries and leans on for support .... And it the best thing tht will happen to u....b kind and ask her on a date... If u have a good time go on another and on the second or third ask her to b ur girl.... It works for me.... The first time take her somewhere nice the second somewhere peaceful and the third go watch the sunset or something romantic and then ask her out

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