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New boyfriend won't leave me alone?
So, I'm in a new relationship, and I'm pretty used to being single and having my own space, physically and emotionally. I'm feeling sort of smothered, every time I pick up my phone there's another text from him, and because he's temporarily unemployed, he wants to spend every free minute with me. He's also typically male and won't leave me any personal space when we're sitting watching TV or whatever, he's hanging onto me like a lap dog. What do I do, am I crazy for being bothered by this? Is this just what I have to expect to be in a relationship?
9 Answers
- Anonymous8 years ago
He is smothering you and you need to let him know this.The texting and sitting too close while watching TV and let him know you dont want to spend all day together otherwise you will end up hating him before too long!
- 8 years ago
Um that's called a relationship. Maybe you don't really wanna date anyone? Sounds like you wanna stay single. Some people are just happier single. You don't HAVE to have a boyfriend.
- Anonymous8 years ago
tell him how your feeling, say you like all his physciallness, but you need a little more personal space and tell the boi to get a job, how's he expect to take you out and give you what you deserve. He needs to get on the ball and get going and stop playing carebear. Other than that he seems to be a typical boyfriend haha hope he finds a new job quickly and you guys work out!
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- 8 years ago
Tell him to stop smothering you because you don;t like and ask him to give you some space.
- 8 years ago
You're not crazy for being bothered by this, but it is to be expected in a new relationship.
- 8 years ago
Tell him leave you alone. I don't think it would help build a healthy relationship when one person becomes so over-reacting.
Source(s): I was talking to a guy who is my cousin's friend. Every time I picked up the phone, I saw his texts. I feel like he was attacking me, I seriously told him off. I felt really bad about it, but I'm glad that I didn't say yes when he asked me out. Then I moved on to another guy, who never ever texts or calls me. I did ask him once if he was married or something. If he was, just let me know, I didn't want a lady show up at my workplace and yell at me. Anyways, he started to text me more (once a week), I think it's funny and I don't reply any of his texts. He's a great guy with great career and awesome personality. We see each other every other week, and if he's seeing someone else, it doesn't matter to me - Anonymous8 years ago
Lol tell him to take a step back or ask him " why you sweating me?"
- Anonymous8 years ago
tell him to slow it down !! no fkin lie i was the same,, and i totally changed.. YOU got to let him know.. once or twice.. it should hit him it will work
