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He led me on then rejected me?
So this guy started talking to me in class (were seniors), eventually got my number and has texted me almost every day for the last month, sometimes more than once a day. We've talked about everything and I really opened up to him. He went out of his way to switch lab groups to work with me in class. He complimented me, and not gonna lie we talked about sex and that kind of thing but I told him I wouldn't do it right now. He also like felt my butt once but that was it. So today after school he texted me, it was a normal conversation, and he even complimented me on my outfit and said he wanted to see what's underneath (obviously partially joking around though). Then I told him my sister told her friend we were dating and that if he heard that rumor that's where it came from. And I guess that got him thinking because then he went into it hard and pretty much broke my heart.
He said how he didn't want a relationship and sex wasn't his thing (even though he told me he did want a relationship and every time we talked about sex HE brought it up and I told him I wasn't really into it). He said that he had family issues to deal with and was scared of getting hurt, and I told him I understand but want him to trust me because I'm not gonna hurt him. He also said that my comment about wanting to go to prom with him caught him off guard (another guy asked me that i turned down). Idk how that's possible when we've talked about so much deeper things than prom. I just don't understand how within minutes he can go from complimenting me and completely leading me on to telling me he doesn't want a relationship.
ithink it's a bad time for a relationship anyway but I'm still hurt that he led me on and I fell for it. He said he wants to keep talking and thinks he wants to ask me to prom but just doesn't know. How do I handle this? I don't even know how to feel especially after turning the other guy down for him. What do I do?
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- PEGGY SLv 78 years agoFavorite Answer
Tell him that you like him, but you are not going to sit around and wait for him to ask you to the prom. Tell him that you feel he is scared of a relationship and that you understand that, but he did not have to treat you like the you said the word "love", when you told him about what your sister said.
Then just let it go. It will be up to him, if he wants to make it up to you. If he tries to talk to you and does not apologize, tell him that you think he owes you and apology for hurting your feelings like that. Tell him that if he truly wants to be friends, then he should care enough to apologize. If he asks you to the prom, tell him that you will think about it and let him know later that day. Give him an opportunity to think you might not go with him. If a girl is too easy to get, a guy can sometimes lose interest, so you want to play a little bit hard to get, but not too much.
- ?Lv 48 years ago
I think you should go to prom with the other guy who asked you. Yeah still talk to him as friends but if he tries to initiate any flirting just brush it off. Perhaps he didn't realize he was leading you on and thought you were both just having a bit fun. He maybe did like you though but things in his family are putting things off between the two of you for now.