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Do people really believe the dumb stereotypes about New Jersey?

I have grown up in New Jersey, and I have always loved it. I live a short ride away from NYC and can see the skyline from my stretch of the highway, the beaches are beautiful with awesome boardwalks (Atlantic City, Cape May, Wildwoods, Point Pleasant), it is one of the most well-educated and wealthiest states. Also, many shows (Amazing, like The Sopranos, and awful ones, Jersey Shore) and movies take place here. I guess we can also credit our vicinity to NYC for SOME of that. Tons of famous people are from here, the list is very long. Thomas Edison and Albert Einstein lived here. We have Princeton, perhaps the most prestigious school in the country (WITH Harvard). We're very proud to be from this incredible state, so it really annoys us when people judge us with dumb stereotypes created by the media. Since we're across from river from NYC, they need someone to pick on, so they choose us. Then these joke are all over the media, and people who don't know any better think it's all true and condemn us without knowing anything. Staten Island and sometimes Long Island suffer from the same treatment, too. I even laugh at New Jersey jokes, they're funny! But when people actually believe it, it sickens me because this state is the exact opposite of what it's portrayed. It's a very nice and desirable place to live, which is why wealthy NYC commuters and famous people choose to live here. One small stretch of the turnpike near New York isn't that pretty, but once you venture more than a few miles out, you see beautiful mountains, beaches, rolling hills and farms. There are many beautiful towns, but we admit that many of our cities are really ghetto (Paterson, Camden, Newark, although Newark is getting a lot better). The state has a lot of biodiversity, ethnic diversity and socioeconomic diversity (though not a good thing exactly..) We also got Cory Booker, the super mayor! Chris Christie is cool too, and this is coming from a left-winger. I don't mean to sound preachy, but it's frustrating when the rest of the country criticizes you when your state is great, like many of the other great states in the country. We know people from NY, PA and Delaware who always come here for our beaches, and they love New Jersey because they've ACTUALLY come and visited. Do any of you actually believe these stereotypes? Have you had any experiences in NJ? Thanks everyone.

Update:

@Cabbage, The funny thing is, my town is officially classified as a suburb of NYC, hahaha. What you said is quite true.

Update 2:

@Mike, did you see much of New Jersey outside of Newark and the turnpike? I think you'd be pleasantly surprised.

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  • ?
    Lv 6
    8 years ago
    Favorite Answer

    The ones from "Jersey Shore", no, but most people think of 3 parts of New Jersey; the northern part, a sururb of New York, the central part, dairy farms, the southern part, a suburb of Philly, with factories running along the whole length of the NJ Turnpike.

    Those "stereotypes" of NJ aren't helped by the governor of New Jersey, Bruce Springsteen, and Jon Bon Jovi, let alone the discount shopping malls of Bergen County.

  • Mike
    Lv 7
    8 years ago

    I should say nice things about NJ because that's where my wife is from. But, when we were dating and I took her home the first time, we got off the train in Newark and I said "What's that smell?" and she said "What smell?" Years later, we drove over the Pulaski Skyway with our kids to visit her parents. By that time, after being away from NJ for years, she and the kids said "Close the windows!" The nicest thing about NJ is the gas prices are 20 cents per gallon cheaper than NY.

    I've been from High Point to Cape May. When my parents moved to central NJ, off 8A, I don't know how my father knew which corn field to turn at to get to Princeton. Now, I don't know how he knows which mcmansion mushroom field to turn at. NJ road signs always took you just so far before they disappeared and left you in a dump somewhere. I dearly love my GPS.

  • 8 years ago

    all we californians see of NJ is Jersey Shore, so unfortunately, a lot of people do think it's all true and everyone acts like that

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