I'm depressed and really worried about myself help?

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Well I just got out of self harm and eating disorder rehab. I was very emotional and my tutor came on to me it's a long story but he pressured me into sending him pictures of myself nude with my face in it. He called it his insurance against me showing anyone he also said that's the only way that I can gain his trust. One thing led to another he blackmailed me with the picture and then we had sex. I'm 16 and he's 18. So it is against the law in California. Last night I told him that I was going to tell the cops about he told me he was going to kill himself. I'm pretty sure he hurt himself but now he's in the mental hospital. I didn't mean to cause him this much pain but he had sex with me and the ignored me, blackmailed me and had kiddy porn of me. Which is all against the law. I don't know how to keep my cool. I feel like resorting to self harm behavior:( help what should I do?

Anonymous · Accepted Answer

whatever happens to the person its not your fault
im not asking you not to feel sorry for him if he kills himself for example
but don't blame yourself for it or feel guilty cause its not your fault
you'll be doing the right thing by reporting him
what he did is wrong and he should be punished for it 
if you don't stop him he'll probably continue doing it to other people 
as for your problems self harming or ending your life isn't really the solution 
i can help you find a real solution to your problems
i've helped many people before and ill be able to help you also
email me at spieleranswers@outlook.com
hope i helped :)
ill be waiting for your email
remember to stay strong and have faith

boystownhotline · Answer

It sounds like you would benefit by talking to a Crisis Counselor. The Boys Town National Hotline @ 1(800) 448-3000 has Crisis Counselors available 24/7 who can problem solve issues with you or provide referrals to other agencies in your area. If you would rather chat on line, go to yourlifeyourvoice.org. We would be able to talk with you about how you are feeling and problem solve ways to better handle the situation that you are in. Give us a call and we can help you work out a plan on how to discuss this with someone. Think of the skills you learned in rehab for coping.  What he did was wrong.  Do not allow his actions become your problem.

counselor KA

? · Answer

Go immediately to the police and tell them what you just told us, he'll be arrested regardless of being mentally ill. I suspect he has borderline personality disorder and that's why he self harmed and is trying to deliberately emotionally blackmail you. Don't let him win.

After that get counselling to work through what you've been through.

Good luck

? · Answer

first, congratulations on stopping self harming, i know it is extremely difficult, and for overcoming your eating disorder :) . 
  have you told anyone what your tutor did?  what he did was illegal, and he shouldn't be making you feel bad about reporting it. maybe you could speak to a councilor? you have obviously been affected badly by what happened to you, and they could offer the best advice and will listen to any problems you have, big or small. good luck :-)

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