Have they or are they sleeping together?

"They lock themselves in her bathroom when I am arond for 1/2 hour at a time. " and "He is flirting with her, wrestling, smacking her on the butt, ..."

RED FLAG.

He's having sex with her. Not a doubt in my mind.

this is seen beside the point by making use of the courts for you and your "boyfriend" to sleep interior the comparable room jointly on an identical time as the son is over. it may seem volatile to the son considering which you men do no longer carry an engagement status and are not married. What in case you men destroy up and then he's alongside with somebody else in a month. i think of your boyfriend is doing what's powerful and that's thinking of his son first. Get married in case you want make issues top.

"They lock themselves in her bathroom when I am arond for 1/2 hour at a time"

WHAT?!? Girl, go with your feelings. They are usually true. In my opinion, this guy is sleeping with this other chick. Confront him, ask him about his behavior, and go from there. Something is definitely not right and his actions are very inappropriate.

If they aren't (which I think they are) then they def do have something going on. More than likely they are sleeping together though. There's no reason he should be doing any of that around you and he obviously could care less how you feel about that. I wish my man would smack another girls butt in front of me and flirt with her.

Uhhhh. Seriously? You could of stopped at "lock themselves in the bathroom for a half hour." I would worry to and maybe investigate a little

they lock them selves in the bathroom together?? im sorry but something is not right there and falling asleep on you at 11 but wanting to spend all hours of the night awake with her? no thats no right either something is up

The sister-in-law is a relationship wrecker. Not serious about her own relationship and certainly not concerned about yours.

At the same time, your boyfriend lends himself to her advances for the attention.

Both of them are wrong, and you have fallen by the wayside.

while it has been evident, What are you doing there yet? It has already been the time to walk out on him...What is the use of 3rd person between that snogging couple? You are non enitity for him.. Its late but still time to safe guard your dignity and self respect... All his acts indirectly tell you to BE OFF.. You are no more required for respectful relation...

It sounds as if they are either already sexually involved or on the cusp of it.

Either way you have to decide whether to address it by asking him or to go on as things are.

You deserve to be with someone who wants you and no one else and who respects you enough not to slap anyone else on the butt in front of you.

I hope you find happiness.

Smacking her on the butt is a big no no I would of flipped out on him. He is cheating on you. What does your brother say about their relationship?