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My girlfriend is getting bullied by another guy?
My girlfriend and I have been together for about 3 months now, and we are extremely happy to say the least. But it was until last week she came to me and told me about this guy who inbox's her on Facebook, apparently he makes fun of her, he says things like "I hate the group you hang out with, you deserve better. You should chill with us" and other little comments he makes.
I want to tell this guy to stop speaking to her, I have no idea how to go about it, I'm 18 years old so threatening him could be a wrong move, but on the other hand, I don't want to ignite this any further. Does anybody have any idea's on how I can handle this without making it harder for her?
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- 8 years agoFavorite Answer
You seem EXTREMELY mature. That's refreshing. I'm a year younger than you. Although I have no relationship experience (forever alone) I know a lot of people who are always having this stuff happen. You don't want drama or some sort of confrontation, which is extremely mature and correct. Try and contact the guy, or have your girlfriend let you use your facebook and identify yourself when you communicate with him. Often when people find out their messages/harassment is being seen by more than the victim, they will stop immediately. Confront him gently by saying something like "Hey, I'm *girlfriend's name*'s boyfriend *your name*. *girlfriend's name* showed me what you've been saying to her, and it isn't very polite. She's happy with her friends and would like you to leave her alone. Please let her be."
There's a 95% chance he'll just stop. If he's one of "those" guys who's interested in her and acts aggressive don't reciprocate. Just tell him to stay away from her, and that you will get authorities or older adults (parents) involved if he persists. But stick to doing that only if the first confrontation doesn't work.
Good luck :D
- ?Lv 45 years ago
What you are not seeing is that he's the person who appears like an fool, now not you. All people else is observing this and realizing what an ****** he's, just another bully. I have an understanding of why you might be angry, and so that you really have three alternatives: *Strike back and fail the university year *do not do whatever and continue taking it *Reporting on him and fitting often called a squeeler and a snitch Now, you DO have one other option. Wait except you go away college and get off the school floor. You most likely know how he will get house or where he lurks. Possibly you must believe about doing what you suppose is quintessential THERE as an alternative. I took care of a few bullies like this when I was a child. I did it after institution and off of tuition premesis. Let HIM assault you first, so its self safeguard - do not you go attacking him first or you are going to be the one charged with assult. Once you make your factor, he won't be bothering you to any extent further. Bullies invariably have a tendency to whimper and hide afterwards or attempt to brown nose up toyou.
- Anonymous8 years ago
Tell her to ignore him. Replying would just egg him on.
- 8 years ago
does she know she can just block him -_- if she does he cant find her or message her on facebook
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