survey:-what happens when someone start to love his sadness/loneliness?

They become wise . those who can be happy in sadness are surely a wise and matured person . able to understand and heal others problems who are like them . .

people love it because it's an EXCUSE not to live to their fullest potential. I was this way in high school and I was absolutely pathetic. I am no longer like that, and thank god I realized I was worth far more than sitting around being depressed.

He becomes a philosopher like Aristotle. If he is a failure in love he is likely to become a famous saint like Tulsi Das.

@ Creative eye.: Fully agree with your views.

"I certainly have been instructed that those 2 thoughts have the comparable root, and are simillar, not opposite. So what occurs why the ultimately come to a head and meet??" it extremely is once you start up touching on Taiwan as "abode".

He will probably try to find someone else sad

What's the problem? If one comes to like it then there is no cause for concern.

He becomes his own person. And tends to listen to other people less. Its a great accomplishment.

That person will become a victim of self-pity.

It'll be hard for them to get out of it :P

They fall into the same hole.