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Feeling really depressed?

This is soo awkward to say, but thinking about it, i have no friends :/ ive moved to uni and it seems ALL my mates from back home have forgotten about me, despite my effort to contact them, even at uni i dont feel like ive made strong friendships, just people i say hi to really :( and its not like i havent made any effort at socials.

One of my best mates from back home invited me to go out with him and two others of our best mates, i was happy ... it would be the 4 of us :) but they kinda just stopped talking to me and today i saw ( on facebook) the 3 of them out, without me. I feel unwanted and used, all this effort ive made to make friends in the past is for nothing, there all gone :(

What do i do ? How do i stop myself feeling so depressed ? Did my friend feel pressured into asking me out ? If soo i feel even more unwanted :(

Thanks for listening.

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  • 8 years ago
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    Don't dwell on what's happened because it'll make you more unhappy. Instead, join a group at Uni - sports, writing, music, etc. THere are loads of them. If you're in a group with like-minded people, you're bound to make some friends.

  • 8 years ago

    I'm in the same predicament as you are, but the thing is, I don't know what to do either. Loneliness is an overpowering emotion and it just drains everything positive out. The only advice I can give you is to see a therapist/Psychologist.

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