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How do I get out of dating three women simultaneously?
I am not totally sure how I ended up in this situation. It sounds good but isn't. I have, for about a year and a half, been seriously dating three women simultaneously. Two of them are local, but paths haven't crossed. One of them lives an hour away. Each thinks we are absolutely exclusive. I spend just about every night with one of the three. One of them got vaginitis early on, as I think you expose women to that when their lover has other partners. Each of them is very beautiful; much better than I deserve. Two of them have talked marriage. But keeping stories and times straight is now getting impossible. I fear rage, tears and repercussions that might cause me to lose all three of them. I would be lucky to have any of them but I definitely see that I might lose all of them. How to go about this?
9 Answers
- 8 years ago
There is a very high chance that you will lose all three. I don't know how your penis can keep up but I can tell for sure when a guy is very horny and missing me vs. when he's just going through the motions. Is it about the sex? Or admiration? What? What do you like about each of them? Which would you want in your life? The only possible way I see to do this is to go absolutely cold turkey with two of them -- meaning, no contact. But I will be you a million dollars that you don't have the inner strength to do that. You crave all three flavors of love and affection, despite the fact that it is grossly, grossly unfair to them. I guess you aren't really exposing them to STDs so long as each of the three is exclusive with you, but I still believe it's not physically healthy for them -- greatly increases the occurrence of UTIs and I wouldn't be surprised if each of them has had them due to you -- and at any rate no woman should have to have sex with someone who just hours ago bedded another.
- SW-6Lv 68 years ago
IMO - sigh..... Why would you have so little respect for them and yourself to do something so stupid? Don't even try that not totally sure how you ended up in this - you know exactly what you were doing. You are a liar and a cheater, and how you are able to live with yourself is beyond me. Think of someone doing what you are doing to your mother, sister, aunt, cousin, etc. Then it would be wrong, wouldn't it? You my friend do not deserve to have any of them, as you are not capable of being honest and trustworthy. Personally, after you get out of this I wouldn't want you around because there is not a way for you to get out of this without them realizing something fishy is up. If you say you need your space - that means you have found another. Face it - there is no easy way out of this. If I were you I would chalk this one up to experience, break it off with all 3 by telling them the truth. If for no other reason it will be the start of you growing up, seeing and admitting that you shouldn't treat people like this, and it will show you what admitting your mistakes is like so you won't do it again hopefully. Be by yourself and think about the hurt and pain that you caused and ask yourself do you really want to cause that again? Think about your loved ones and them being treated like garbage. If this doesn't make you change your ways, Karma will. Good luck
Source(s): old enuff and been thru enuff to know better - lizLv 78 years ago
It used to be that you could date as many women as you liked until you decided to go steady with someone very special. Times have changed and clearly what you are doing is looking like cheating, but cheating on who exactly since they all have the same status in your life.
I dont quite get why you said one of them got vaginitis early on as you think you expose women to that when their lover has other partners, are you talking about an STI ? because vaginitis is an involuntary muscle contraction it has nothing to do with other lovers.
I think you have got yourself into a situation that only you can get out of.
Good luck.
- geetarman56Lv 78 years ago
If you are ready to settle on any special one, then just make a decision to do so and drop the other two. It may cause tears and such, but so what. Life isn't easy. Make it easy on yourself and decide on one to be with you really want the most.
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- BelzelgaLv 78 years ago
Ya dun goofed
If they find out, it is inevitable they will drop you. Come clean to all 3. You're gonna lose all 3 but at least you know you did the right thing and have a fresh stat.
- Anonymous8 years ago
It just shows you can't stand your own company or to be alone...........
I suggest you break up with all three as you are doing a major dis-service to all of them as they are not the ones cheating as it is you! I think you need to get a life and stop spreading diseases and it's men like and similar to you that ruin it for other men.
Karma, what goes around comes around...................
Source(s): Me - Anonymous8 years ago
Break up with them... And get a life !