Does it sound like I could have been roofied?

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Sunday night me and my two best friends went of these two guys house. They both know them pretty well, so I felt safe. It was just the five of us and we were all drinking. Me and one of the guys were flirting all night, and he even told my friend that he was into me. Well I was drinking vodka mixed with orange juice, I think I had about four cups of it total. After the 3rd cup, I was starting to feel drunk, but not to bad. The five us were playing card games, and I finished my drink. I started to get up, but he told me to sit back down and he would get it for me. Normally, I'd get it myself but he seemed like somebody I could trust. After drinking that last cup, about fifteen minutes later I started getting even more dizzy and tired. I remember putting my head down on the card table and I heard the guy say "is she asleep". I shook my head, and put my head back up because I didn't want to seem like a buzz kill. After I remember the other guy put on Harry Potter and I only remember watching only about maybe 5 minutes of it, after that, everything else is very unclear. However, after about four hours (I checked my phone text messages the next morning, and I assumed it was around 3 am when I woke up), it seemed like I woke up. I felt like I woke up from a dream, but that I was still detatched from my body. I remember us hooking up when I woke up, but I don't know how it started. I don't know if I agreed to it, or if I initiated it, or how it even started. It was like I couldn't even say yes or no even if I wanted to. I remember him telling me that my pants needed to come off, and then I remember feeling a lot of pain (I was still a virgin). Then I only remember about 10 minutes after that, then I woke up in the morning next to him. The next morning was very awkward, and he left to go to work. Later that day he texted my friend out of nowhere and told her that we didn't have sex because he couldn't fit (which makes me think that we didn't, even though I remember feeling a lot of pain). The next morning I also had a terrible hang over. I also woke up pretty sore. The thing is, I've drank a lot more than that before and I've been fine, and I've never blacked out like that before. I just don't know if I was slipped something in my drink or if I was just a drunken idiot. I also don't know if I'm still a virgin anymore, which scares me. Bottom line: I don't know if this whole thing is my fault.

Blundt Cake · Accepted Answer

You went to some strangers house, had a number of drinks, passed out and woke up next to a guy.
You didn't know these people, yet decided you felt safe enough to get drunk at their house.
THAT part is 100% your fault and I hope you learn from it.

As far as anything else that happened, it's possible your drink was contaminated. It's possible the guy attempted to have sex with you without your consent.  Both would be considered a crime.
What you decide to do about it is up to you.

d1s_enchanted · Answer

Wow dear, I'm sorry you experienced this. Where was your so called friend during this? Whether you were roofied or not, no friend would let some loser take advantage of a drunk girl. It does seem like you were roofied but sometimes if you drink too much you may black out and not remember much either. However this boy knew you were not fully conscious and took advantage of you. That can be considered rape. If you are sore then something definitely happened, if I were you I would tell your parents and they can involve the police or you take a drug test to see if any drugs are in your body. I know its scary but that is probably the right thing to do. Either way ditch the "best friends" because a real friend wouldn't let that happen to another friend.

? · Answer

It does sound like you were roofied. I know it sucks and may be embarrassing, but get to a hospital or call the cops. They will not judge you, but they will be able to help determine if you were raped or not. Even if he "couldn't fit", he may have still broken your hymen or caused internal damage to you. Even if it cannot be proven that the guy did anything to you, the cops can still question him and hopefully come up with some answers. At the very least, he will hopefully get too scared to commit this crime again. 

I was roofied once, in a bar. Luckily I managed to drag myself out of there and get a cab home, where I passed out instantly. Another friend of mine was not so lucky last year. She also got roofied in a bar, and the asshole took her home and raped her.

This is not your fault. Even if you were just really drunk (which it definitely sounds like you were not), he still took advantage of you.

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Emmy · Answer

He definitely slipped something into your drink. Honestly, I think you should report this because it sounds like rape to me.

Anonymous · Answer

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