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What does it mean when a man and a woman's eyes suddenly meet?
Unfortunately, it happened at work. A new hire was in the hallway outside of the manager's office. I was attending a meeting and when it ended I opened the door forcefully and wide, so others could follow behind me and when I did, our eyes locked onto each others. At first I thought he was an ex-husband from 20 yrs ago and I think that's why I lingered a second but realized it wasn't him and moved on. Now he keeps watching me throughout the day and I keep ignoring it as best I can, however he keeps creeping into my thoughts when I'm at home. Yes I'm single, over 50, and very lonely but I have ruled out romance because I'm constantly choosing the wrong type of man. And I definitely don't want a work relationship because everyone is in your business. I figure this guy is probably not even single, (in which case, he'd, again be the wrong type of man). We are not allowed to wear jewelry at work since it is a factory therefore no wedding rings. I once made coincidental eye contact this way years ago on the job but I dismissed it because I was married.(Although it turned out I should have explored it with him because my husband was cheating on me at the time but I didn't know it.) What can I do to stop him from creeping into my thoughts before this goes any further? Does it mean something when this happens between a man and a woman? I know I sound naive but it's because most likely I am when it comes to flirting and romance. Does anyone have any advice for me?
4 Answers
- VTerLv 68 years agoFavorite Answer
It sounds like he has some type of interest in you. But you're right, work relationships are not good because everyone is in your business. Plus, if it doesn't work out, you still have to see the person all the time.
You shouldn't rule out romance. Get on match.com, there are many men on there with similar circumstances to yours. Good luck!
- 8 years ago
Ignore the rude and mean comments from people, everyone thinks they are tough on the internet, not so much in real life. :)
You said he keeps watching you throughout the day now. So it could be a glance that meant nothing or there could be the potential for more. Either way you'll only know if either you or him broach the subject. If you know you are definitely not interested in a relationship avoid the whole situation, never talk to him or glance at him to make him think you like him and he will probably get bored and move on. But since it is in your thoughts I'd say you should have a good think about whether you want a relationship and if you decide that you do, try to get to know this person (or any person, for that matter) a little better first. Take time and find out what kind of person he is and then decide whether you are interested. Best of luck!
- 8 years ago
It ment you looked at each other at the same time... You might be going senile to think a glance or stare is a signal of LOVE.. Maybe you read alot of romance novels :/