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How to find out if she likes girls?

Yes, I'm a girl. I'm pansexual, but not fully out of the closet. If people ask I say yes I am, but I'm not like HEY GUYS I'M PANSEXUAL. I don't care if people know. But anywho, I really like my friend Alex (she's a girl) but I have no idea if she likes girls. I have this feeling like she does, but I just really wana find out for sure. I text her all the time and talk to her in school a lot. How do I figure it out? If I have to ask her to figure it out, how should I ask her? I don't want to be rude. I know she won't judge me for liking girls either because she's not like that. I just want her to know I have feelings for her and see how things go. Thank you all in advance c:

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  • 8 years ago

    I would ask her, because that is the only way to know for sure. Get on the topic in a non creepy way like bringing up dating or something and just ask. Maybe mention that you are pan or something but playing the guessing game won't help. Best of luck!

  • 8 years ago

    Hmm, this is a toughie, because you don't want to jepordize the friendship. If you tell her you're attracted to her, and she's attracted to dudes, it may be awkward. If I were you, I'd keep texting her for a while. Get on the topic of guys, dating, sexuality etc and tell her what u r, but don't tell her you like her unless she says she likes girls too - then its obvious that she likes you back!

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