Is it ok not to get "butterflies" anymore?

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This guy has been my best friend for 2 years now. I've liked him for almost a year, he's liked me for about the same, but neither of us knew how the other person felt until recently. Now we're kinda together, but not.. kinda complicated.. like just friends but we act like a couple, everyone knows we're a thing, and he said he's gonna talk to my dad about us dating soon. So the thing is, I used to get butterflies when I first started liking him.. like ALL the time! Now it's different! I hardly ever get butterflies anymore. I still get them on occasion just not a lot. And sometimes I think that means I don't like him, but then when I think about it I couldn't imagine being with anyone else! He's my everything!! So is it ok not to have the butterflies anymore?

MDiva · Accepted Answer

It's perfectly fine that you don't get butterflies. It just means that you're getting used to him (& you) in that "couple" setting. Butterflies don't determine rather you like a guy or not they're there to tell you that you're nervous.

Rachit Ghos · Answer

Don't worry, get married than you will get butterflies now n than

thatonechick · Answer

It means you're used to him and comfortable hanging with him dot worry its perfectly normal it could also mean ur confidence with him is building.

Anonymous · Answer

Its normal if you want buterflys go f a new guy every night and hope you don't get diseases!

sahil · Answer

its OK its just that you are getting use to him

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