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My girlfriend controls my life...help!?

So I got a friend pregnant (we weren't dating) we were both young and dumb. I decided to be a man about and stay with her, I work 2 jobs and I don't get to spend a single dollar since we never have money cause she's always spending it. She complains that she wants to move out of my parents but she don't help me save so we could move out. Pressures me to give her an engangement ring. I do love her and our daughter but I just can't continue not being able to talk to my friends and go out even to the gym without her. She's always checking up my phone even tho I haven't ever cheated on her she blames her insecurity because she found some old Facebook messages with plenty of girls BEFORE we got together when we were just friends.. What should I do ?

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  • 8 years ago
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    Honestly sounds like a very unhealthy relationship. If you are set on staying with the girl maybe seek therapy for the two of you. Get to the bottom of her trust issues. That's also not a very healthy environment for your little one to be in. Lay your feelings on the line for her in a non threatening way and see how she is feeling.

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